"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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New Girlfriend

amnbyrd

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Ok so to make a long story short this girl I sent a friend request to sent me a message and basically we hit it off and she gave me her number(I didn't even have to ask).
Well Saturday night we met up and pretty much just rode around trying to find stuff to do(I really didnt wanna do the typical movie date)-here where we are there seriously isnt that much to do though were trying to think of things to get into, btw Im in the military and Ive only been here for about a month and her dad is a colonel(which she neglected to mention at first lol) and shes been here for 4 yrs) So she basically showed me around, we got drinks at this cool place that has hawaiian style kinda drinks. Later on that night we ended up street racing in a bad part of town. lol
Anyways I didnt use any kino on her but the next day she got ahold of me and we got together again that night. At the end she asked if I wanted to meet her family-which I did, they were all watching a b-ball game and we all talked and though I was a lil nervous about meeting her high ranking dad things went alright, before I left I got a hug. Well the next night later we hung out again but this time her sis and her bf met up with us at this park where we walked around and stuff. Well I had a movie date with her today but Im tired as **** so I took a raincheck for Friday. Anyways I know I need to up the kino. Friday I plan on holding hands n kissing her and all that basic ****. Her interest seems high despite the lack of kino also. Any input would be appreciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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