New girl

[newone05]

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[kidkoala]

Ask your buddy to set you up on a blind date. Go to a party with your buddy and have him invite her. Text her and get her email and talk. Get her phone number. Ask her out. THose are my ideas. Best of luck to you.

 

[newone05]

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[Centaurion]

You acted like a chump from the get go. I suggest you start reading up on the DJ bible (link is at the top right hand corner).

Stop texting her, instead grab your balls, call her and ask her out. Simple. NO more chumpish acts like letting your buddy setting you up etc. Be a man.

 

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What Centaurion said...

You don't even know this girl and what kind of respons did you expect to a msg like "Yeah I'm good. Any news?"..?
That was just painful. Nothing in there that would remotely kick up her interest in you. Seems like you messed up from the very beginning and in my honest opinion, even though just based on that short info, your chances of getting romantic with this chick is very remote.

You should read the bible and learn the basics atleast. Stop making exuses for yourself like she's out of credit or that she fell asleep. She didn't reply 'cause you gave her no reason to. You just bored her. Sorry if I seem harsh here, but it's the way I see it..

Good luck.

 

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Originally posted by dementia
yea texting is ****ing dumb bro.

Dont txt, cos when they dont reply u start getting all messed up like this. You're giving her way to much power...

What happens is you might start txting again n again n shell be like "Oh man who is this loser txting me none stop"

Just call n chit chat to her then casually propose u go out together.. PLAN something first, like where u wana go, what day, time etc.

I disagree that texting is dumb. In europe it is actually the no.1 way to flirt. I've heard that it's not that common in the states due to different systems etc..dunno if it's true though.

I do however agree that texting is dumb if you are JUST getting to know the girl. But after some rapport has been established it is a great way to flirt. And you'll soon find out if she flirts back. If she doesn't reply or takes too long, then just stop it. She isn't interested. But if she does, then it's gold. You can plan what to write and get her to think of you right before she goes to bed etc. When you have her dreaming about you 'cause you are the last thing on her mind before she falls asleep, her dreams are working in your favour. She's unconsciously (?) sarging herself dreaming of you

Do you call a girl just to chit chat or only when you plan to arrange a meeting? I think it's pointless to call girls just to chat. That's what her girlfriends are for. I never do it. I ONLY call if it is to set up a date, and then i keep it short and sweet. I think you can screw up alot over the phone...

 

[Centaurion]

I concur. Text is quite 'in' in Europe (stupid pun).

When I lived in Norway, I had a couple of chicks that were kinda nuts after me. They kept texting me 15+ times everyday, it got annoying in the long run, but still.

 

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Originally posted by dementia
What you said about a chick dreaming about you just cos you txted her right before she went to sleep is a load of bull**** too...

It's not bull****. It's a proven fact. It's kind of the same thing like if you call her before she goes to sleep, there is a high probability that she will subconsciously incorporate you in her dreams. Ofcourse a textmsg will have less effect, but if she has some interest it will make her think of you and chances are you'll be in her dreams.

It's not her conscious choice. That's why it's recommended to call a girl between 21:30 and 23:00 or something like that.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

I concur. Text is quite 'in' in Europe (stupid pun).

Hey the pun is still in though, only like 20 years old, it's so in... it's hip(pop!)

It's not bull****. It's a proven fact.

It is true, I saw the research somehwere... **** searching for it that could take days... It has something to do with the amygdala being the center for your emotions, and the only region of the brain that remains active during rest...

That's why I always condone getting a girl to go gaga for you by playing with as many emotions as possible... hehehe I've GOT to post how to make a girl drunk without alcohol, it is amazing what girls will do and cannot control if you arouse their emotions over a point, jealousy is scary don't play with it though, anger is funny, funny makes her piss herself and she won't talk to you, and tons more that are just too interesting to deny...

In the texting case, stop, you are untrained and one slip will **** it up for you, learn and than go back over your steps so you can realize you've got to change. Take it in baby steps as far as you can remember in knowledge you can apply and learn, beyond what you cannot remember is logic, and logic is determined by the initial input which is society, society teaches you AFC, so learn what you remember to learn, you believe what is remember as being logical.

As far as the girl not responding... think about what you said

"Hey, John here ya saw me down town with steve the other day? so how r u?"

Creepy stalker guy, like you could be anybody, you could know her friend was steve... she played along, since you weren't right there. If her friends were around her what would they think about your txt message?

So i txted back just da usual, "yeah im good, any news?"

That sounds decieving, and boring... you say how are you, she answers you as aiight.... than you ask again whats the news, is she going to say anything other than nothin much? This girl is bored by you dude...

If some girl I didn;t know worth a damn messaged me with this **** I would blow her off...