"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

new girl, want to see her more...

chance

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 9, 2004
Messages
252
Reaction score
2
okay i know it's a bad thing to wanna see your gf everyday. i see mine maybe once a week. i only saw her for the second time last night. it was great. thinkin about inviting her out to stay the night at mine (she stayed the night at my friends last time. no problems) - she's going to a birthday party tonight and staying the night. but i've just asked her (phone msg) if she wanted to take advantage of this and stay at mine after she's had her fun at the party. i can get a pal of mine to pick her up.

im kinda not sure that i should of asked her out since i just saw her last night. don't wanna be too needy of her. should i just tell her to ignore my invitation and let her have her time at the party?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

chance

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 9, 2004
Messages
252
Reaction score
2
uhh nah. it's mostly a girly kinda party. im not sure if guys are going. i wouldn't want to go anyway if i was. not the party kinda guy. we just both agreed to do it another day anyway. so it's all good now. but yeah, seeing her once a week sucks. but in a way its good cause we have the chance to miss each other more. still sucks! :)
 
Top