"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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new girl, want to see her more...

chance

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okay i know it's a bad thing to wanna see your gf everyday. i see mine maybe once a week. i only saw her for the second time last night. it was great. thinkin about inviting her out to stay the night at mine (she stayed the night at my friends last time. no problems) - she's going to a birthday party tonight and staying the night. but i've just asked her (phone msg) if she wanted to take advantage of this and stay at mine after she's had her fun at the party. i can get a pal of mine to pick her up.

im kinda not sure that i should of asked her out since i just saw her last night. don't wanna be too needy of her. should i just tell her to ignore my invitation and let her have her time at the party?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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chance

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uhh nah. it's mostly a girly kinda party. im not sure if guys are going. i wouldn't want to go anyway if i was. not the party kinda guy. we just both agreed to do it another day anyway. so it's all good now. but yeah, seeing her once a week sucks. but in a way its good cause we have the chance to miss each other more. still sucks! :)
 
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