"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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new girl, want to see her more...

chance

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okay i know it's a bad thing to wanna see your gf everyday. i see mine maybe once a week. i only saw her for the second time last night. it was great. thinkin about inviting her out to stay the night at mine (she stayed the night at my friends last time. no problems) - she's going to a birthday party tonight and staying the night. but i've just asked her (phone msg) if she wanted to take advantage of this and stay at mine after she's had her fun at the party. i can get a pal of mine to pick her up.

im kinda not sure that i should of asked her out since i just saw her last night. don't wanna be too needy of her. should i just tell her to ignore my invitation and let her have her time at the party?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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chance

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uhh nah. it's mostly a girly kinda party. im not sure if guys are going. i wouldn't want to go anyway if i was. not the party kinda guy. we just both agreed to do it another day anyway. so it's all good now. but yeah, seeing her once a week sucks. but in a way its good cause we have the chance to miss each other more. still sucks! :)
 
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