"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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New girl(s) on the horizon

sadonomspa

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Ok,
As some of you might know. I went through a nasty divorce with a woman I suspect was bpd/bipolar/narcassistic.

Since the seperation I have been spinning alot of plates but not doing anything with any of them. Just going to 3rd base with one.

Heres the problem. All of them are nuts or have the same traits as my ex wife. Even without knowing them I some how manage to find these types of girls.

The one I like the most I come to find is just like my ex wife. Only much hotter. I found out this week she exhibits most of the traits and one dominant trait where she takes pictures of herself and stares at them for long amounts of times, also that she cant stay in one place for to long and is sort of like a gypsy.

Always fighting with her brother who she lives with or her parents who she will live with for another part of the year.

Its like I am trying to find emotionally unavailbile girls.

For starters, I never im her or text her first. She always contacts me first. I never tell her hot pretty she is. I comment more on her smarts then her beauty.

Anybody have this problem and can give pointers?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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YoungSir4sho

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Maybe u should go to different places to pick up women. There's alot of women out there. Right now u r in a slump but sooner or later u will get out of it. If u don't like certain qualities from the girl then move on to the next one.
 

jophil28

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sadonomspa said:
Ok,
As some of you might know. I went through a nasty divorce with a woman I suspect was bpd/bipolar/narcassistic.
IF you are attracting the same types as your wife. then YOU are the problem.

Why bother to get a divorce- stay with the devil you know.
 
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