"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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New girl(s) on the horizon

sadonomspa

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Ok,
As some of you might know. I went through a nasty divorce with a woman I suspect was bpd/bipolar/narcassistic.

Since the seperation I have been spinning alot of plates but not doing anything with any of them. Just going to 3rd base with one.

Heres the problem. All of them are nuts or have the same traits as my ex wife. Even without knowing them I some how manage to find these types of girls.

The one I like the most I come to find is just like my ex wife. Only much hotter. I found out this week she exhibits most of the traits and one dominant trait where she takes pictures of herself and stares at them for long amounts of times, also that she cant stay in one place for to long and is sort of like a gypsy.

Always fighting with her brother who she lives with or her parents who she will live with for another part of the year.

Its like I am trying to find emotionally unavailbile girls.

For starters, I never im her or text her first. She always contacts me first. I never tell her hot pretty she is. I comment more on her smarts then her beauty.

Anybody have this problem and can give pointers?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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YoungSir4sho

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Maybe u should go to different places to pick up women. There's alot of women out there. Right now u r in a slump but sooner or later u will get out of it. If u don't like certain qualities from the girl then move on to the next one.
 

jophil28

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sadonomspa said:
Ok,
As some of you might know. I went through a nasty divorce with a woman I suspect was bpd/bipolar/narcassistic.
IF you are attracting the same types as your wife. then YOU are the problem.

Why bother to get a divorce- stay with the devil you know.
 
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