"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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New girl(s) on the horizon

sadonomspa

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Ok,
As some of you might know. I went through a nasty divorce with a woman I suspect was bpd/bipolar/narcassistic.

Since the seperation I have been spinning alot of plates but not doing anything with any of them. Just going to 3rd base with one.

Heres the problem. All of them are nuts or have the same traits as my ex wife. Even without knowing them I some how manage to find these types of girls.

The one I like the most I come to find is just like my ex wife. Only much hotter. I found out this week she exhibits most of the traits and one dominant trait where she takes pictures of herself and stares at them for long amounts of times, also that she cant stay in one place for to long and is sort of like a gypsy.

Always fighting with her brother who she lives with or her parents who she will live with for another part of the year.

Its like I am trying to find emotionally unavailbile girls.

For starters, I never im her or text her first. She always contacts me first. I never tell her hot pretty she is. I comment more on her smarts then her beauty.

Anybody have this problem and can give pointers?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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YoungSir4sho

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Maybe u should go to different places to pick up women. There's alot of women out there. Right now u r in a slump but sooner or later u will get out of it. If u don't like certain qualities from the girl then move on to the next one.
 

jophil28

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sadonomspa said:
Ok,
As some of you might know. I went through a nasty divorce with a woman I suspect was bpd/bipolar/narcassistic.
IF you are attracting the same types as your wife. then YOU are the problem.

Why bother to get a divorce- stay with the devil you know.
 
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