"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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New girl first date tonight in an hour. -Thoughts

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After a break up that I posted on here about a week and a half ago I'm back into it and have two more lined up after this.

So typically if the first date goes good I always set something up at my house in the next few days. Maybe suggest they cook me dinner and have some wine with a movie so I can get some good one on one time with them and the past 6 girls I've got to my place I've banged that night.

So my question here. Being this is Wednesday, is Friday too soon to suggest this? Usually I give it around 3 or 4 days instead of two. Thoughts gentlemen?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah possibly with the holiday weekend and what not. I'll feel her out and play this by ear.
 
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MattR1984 said:
Maybe suggest they cook me dinner and have some wine with a movie so I can get some good one on one time with them and the past 6 girls I've got to my place I've banged that night.

So my question here. Being this is Wednesday, is Friday too soon to suggest this? Usually I give it around 3 or 4 days instead of two. Thoughts gentlemen?
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Bro if you have banged the past 6 girls on the second date, why do you need our help for the 7th girl? :whistle:
 
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Trump said:
Bro if you have banged the past 6 girls on the second date, why do you need our help for the 7th girl? :whistle:
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I believe there's a fine line between showing some interest and being eager and we don't want to seem eager. We want to show just enough interest to draw them in is my experience. I usually always go by the 3 to 4 days after the initial date but as I'm busy Saturday and Sunday wanted to shoot for Friday and get the ball rolling in the sexual department.

That being said, it's always better to get multiple inputs and thoughts on things instead of just going on my own. I take everyone's opinion on here into consideration.
 
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