"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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New girl first date tonight in an hour. -Thoughts

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After a break up that I posted on here about a week and a half ago I'm back into it and have two more lined up after this.

So typically if the first date goes good I always set something up at my house in the next few days. Maybe suggest they cook me dinner and have some wine with a movie so I can get some good one on one time with them and the past 6 girls I've got to my place I've banged that night.

So my question here. Being this is Wednesday, is Friday too soon to suggest this? Usually I give it around 3 or 4 days instead of two. Thoughts gentlemen?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeah possibly with the holiday weekend and what not. I'll feel her out and play this by ear.
 

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MattR1984 said:
Maybe suggest they cook me dinner and have some wine with a movie so I can get some good one on one time with them and the past 6 girls I've got to my place I've banged that night.

So my question here. Being this is Wednesday, is Friday too soon to suggest this? Usually I give it around 3 or 4 days instead of two. Thoughts gentlemen?
Bro if you have banged the past 6 girls on the second date, why do you need our help for the 7th girl? :whistle:
 

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Trump said:
Bro if you have banged the past 6 girls on the second date, why do you need our help for the 7th girl? :whistle:

I believe there's a fine line between showing some interest and being eager and we don't want to seem eager. We want to show just enough interest to draw them in is my experience. I usually always go by the 3 to 4 days after the initial date but as I'm busy Saturday and Sunday wanted to shoot for Friday and get the ball rolling in the sexual department.

That being said, it's always better to get multiple inputs and thoughts on things instead of just going on my own. I take everyone's opinion on here into consideration.
 
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