"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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New girl first date tonight in an hour. -Thoughts

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After a break up that I posted on here about a week and a half ago I'm back into it and have two more lined up after this.

So typically if the first date goes good I always set something up at my house in the next few days. Maybe suggest they cook me dinner and have some wine with a movie so I can get some good one on one time with them and the past 6 girls I've got to my place I've banged that night.

So my question here. Being this is Wednesday, is Friday too soon to suggest this? Usually I give it around 3 or 4 days instead of two. Thoughts gentlemen?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeah possibly with the holiday weekend and what not. I'll feel her out and play this by ear.
 
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MattR1984 said:
Maybe suggest they cook me dinner and have some wine with a movie so I can get some good one on one time with them and the past 6 girls I've got to my place I've banged that night.

So my question here. Being this is Wednesday, is Friday too soon to suggest this? Usually I give it around 3 or 4 days instead of two. Thoughts gentlemen?
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Bro if you have banged the past 6 girls on the second date, why do you need our help for the 7th girl? :whistle:
 
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Bro if you have banged the past 6 girls on the second date, why do you need our help for the 7th girl? :whistle:
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I believe there's a fine line between showing some interest and being eager and we don't want to seem eager. We want to show just enough interest to draw them in is my experience. I usually always go by the 3 to 4 days after the initial date but as I'm busy Saturday and Sunday wanted to shoot for Friday and get the ball rolling in the sexual department.

That being said, it's always better to get multiple inputs and thoughts on things instead of just going on my own. I take everyone's opinion on here into consideration.
 
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