"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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New girl first date tonight in an hour. -Thoughts

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After a break up that I posted on here about a week and a half ago I'm back into it and have two more lined up after this.

So typically if the first date goes good I always set something up at my house in the next few days. Maybe suggest they cook me dinner and have some wine with a movie so I can get some good one on one time with them and the past 6 girls I've got to my place I've banged that night.

So my question here. Being this is Wednesday, is Friday too soon to suggest this? Usually I give it around 3 or 4 days instead of two. Thoughts gentlemen?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah possibly with the holiday weekend and what not. I'll feel her out and play this by ear.
 

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MattR1984 said:
Maybe suggest they cook me dinner and have some wine with a movie so I can get some good one on one time with them and the past 6 girls I've got to my place I've banged that night.

So my question here. Being this is Wednesday, is Friday too soon to suggest this? Usually I give it around 3 or 4 days instead of two. Thoughts gentlemen?
Bro if you have banged the past 6 girls on the second date, why do you need our help for the 7th girl? :whistle:
 

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Trump said:
Bro if you have banged the past 6 girls on the second date, why do you need our help for the 7th girl? :whistle:

I believe there's a fine line between showing some interest and being eager and we don't want to seem eager. We want to show just enough interest to draw them in is my experience. I usually always go by the 3 to 4 days after the initial date but as I'm busy Saturday and Sunday wanted to shoot for Friday and get the ball rolling in the sexual department.

That being said, it's always better to get multiple inputs and thoughts on things instead of just going on my own. I take everyone's opinion on here into consideration.
 
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