Houston: Centerfolds and Treasures.Glad Im coming there in a months time for a little visit, you gotta recommend some strip joints for me
Atlanta: Palazzio.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
New Girl A
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Atlanta: Palazzio.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Milano
Senior Don Juan
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I`ll keep that in mind, going to Texas and Houston in particular.
Tonight I found myself sitting in my regular bar - without even one remotely hot woman nearby, and only one hot wait staff member, who was put to shame by my last date - and tons of guys my age, missing my 21 year old who used to Uber 25 miles to see me. I realized my time is done here. I think I'm moving to San Antonio (a short ride to Austin just in case).
Milano
Senior Don Juan
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I also want a regular bar to go to, its so american.
Austin is the place to be in Texas? Why not move there
Im trying to sleep when immages of this oneitis keeps entering my mind, the most beautiful dark blue eyes I have ever seen. It also makes me think of the high score theory even more. If I as a man can feel this so strongly after only fuking her twice, imagine all the other guys she couldnt get and her pain. No wonder these sluts have no good left in them at an older age (this particular onitis was 28 like me at the time, and said she was stressed out over her age)
High value men are leaving the rest of us newbies with damaged goods, cant we just get mainstream media to hate brad pits instead of all men and get along?
Just some thoughts keeping me up
The two things that make us the strongest:
1) Getting our oneitis to fall in love with us to begin with.
2) Getting over them.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She looks like one of those girls in those movies where the bad guys uses the good looking girl to seduce the good guy and fall in love with her, and then leave him heartbroken when he finds out the truth.
Who knows, maybe she'll become famous one day.
Who knows, maybe she'll become famous one day.
She broke the thank-you-text rule so I never wrote to her again. She did text after the date, but it was something like "send me some of the photos when you get a chance". Not good enough. Am I becoming too high maintenance?
It's amazing to me how many women forget to say thank-you. I don't mind spoiling them (she said it was the best first date of her life, to which I replied 'If you're still single in your 40's you pretty much have your PhD in dating'), but if they don't send a simple note saying "I had a really good time and appreciate your taking me out", etc, it is over. That was one thing my last girlfriend never failed to do.
She had me singing Elvis Presley in no time.
So I held out and tonight she sent two texts, saying "Neil, PLEASE REPLY - my phone was broken!"
She actually assumed her phone wasn't working when I didn't reply!
I swung by her work tonight and she threw herself at me. I told her I texted her 200 times but that she missed them all, but then showed her that I hadn't even replied. She couldn't believe it.
I took this photo.
She actually assumed her phone wasn't working when I didn't reply!
I swung by her work tonight and she threw herself at me. I told her I texted her 200 times but that she missed them all, but then showed her that I hadn't even replied. She couldn't believe it.
I took this photo.
Desdinova
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To be honest, I don't find her all that attractive. If she's got a good personality, I'd give her a pass solely because of her age. But those fvcking hand tattoos!!! That's a disqualifier right there for me, especially for such a young woman. That's like getting a brand new car and putting stickers & decals all over it.
Once a woman gets her first tattoo, she's pretty much ruined. They always want to get more.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
In a way, the ink is like Neil spray. Keep the Neil off. It's sort of a heartbreak prevention system. I'll never fall for her now. So she can cure me without infecting me.