Houston: Centerfolds and Treasures.Glad Im coming there in a months time for a little visit, you gotta recommend some strip joints for me
Atlanta: Palazzio.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Atlanta: Palazzio.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Milano
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I`ll keep that in mind, going to Texas and Houston in particular.
Tonight I found myself sitting in my regular bar - without even one remotely hot woman nearby, and only one hot wait staff member, who was put to shame by my last date - and tons of guys my age, missing my 21 year old who used to Uber 25 miles to see me. I realized my time is done here. I think I'm moving to San Antonio (a short ride to Austin just in case).
Milano
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I also want a regular bar to go to, its so american.
Austin is the place to be in Texas? Why not move there
Im trying to sleep when immages of this oneitis keeps entering my mind, the most beautiful dark blue eyes I have ever seen. It also makes me think of the high score theory even more. If I as a man can feel this so strongly after only fuking her twice, imagine all the other guys she couldnt get and her pain. No wonder these sluts have no good left in them at an older age (this particular onitis was 28 like me at the time, and said she was stressed out over her age)
High value men are leaving the rest of us newbies with damaged goods, cant we just get mainstream media to hate brad pits instead of all men and get along?
Just some thoughts keeping me up
The two things that make us the strongest:
1) Getting our oneitis to fall in love with us to begin with.
2) Getting over them.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She looks like one of those girls in those movies where the bad guys uses the good looking girl to seduce the good guy and fall in love with her, and then leave him heartbroken when he finds out the truth.
Who knows, maybe she'll become famous one day.
Who knows, maybe she'll become famous one day.
She broke the thank-you-text rule so I never wrote to her again. She did text after the date, but it was something like "send me some of the photos when you get a chance". Not good enough. Am I becoming too high maintenance?
It's amazing to me how many women forget to say thank-you. I don't mind spoiling them (she said it was the best first date of her life, to which I replied 'If you're still single in your 40's you pretty much have your PhD in dating'), but if they don't send a simple note saying "I had a really good time and appreciate your taking me out", etc, it is over. That was one thing my last girlfriend never failed to do.
She had me singing Elvis Presley in no time.
So I held out and tonight she sent two texts, saying "Neil, PLEASE REPLY - my phone was broken!"
She actually assumed her phone wasn't working when I didn't reply!
I swung by her work tonight and she threw herself at me. I told her I texted her 200 times but that she missed them all, but then showed her that I hadn't even replied. She couldn't believe it.
I took this photo.
She actually assumed her phone wasn't working when I didn't reply!
I swung by her work tonight and she threw herself at me. I told her I texted her 200 times but that she missed them all, but then showed her that I hadn't even replied. She couldn't believe it.
I took this photo.
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To be honest, I don't find her all that attractive. If she's got a good personality, I'd give her a pass solely because of her age. But those fvcking hand tattoos!!! That's a disqualifier right there for me, especially for such a young woman. That's like getting a brand new car and putting stickers & decals all over it.
Once a woman gets her first tattoo, she's pretty much ruined. They always want to get more.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
In a way, the ink is like Neil spray. Keep the Neil off. It's sort of a heartbreak prevention system. I'll never fall for her now. So she can cure me without infecting me.