"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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New GF that is anti technology, opinions?

spiegel549

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I recently started dating this 19 year old latina for about 2 months now. I am turning 27 and I feel this girl is the perfect set up for what having a girlfriend is all about. Please tell me if I am right or wrong.

The Facts:

-She is 19
-She goes to school part time/works part time
-She is afraid to introduce me to her family (not sure how they will react) lol
-I am her 2nd boyfriend ever. (would be the first to meet her family)
-She is extremely unexperienced but the sex is good because she is trainable and listens to me.
-She has never given a guy a BJ (not even me yet, still trying) lol

The "Problem"

-Her communication skills are horrible. She has a dinosaur phone. Goes the entire day sometimes with a dead phone and we have zero contact. She is always busy, and we see other about once-twice a week.

The Question

Personally I like to hear from girls I am dating so I am starting to think this is becoming an issue for ME….BUT in reality I know this girl isn't a serious thing to me because of the age gap, life experience etc so why do I care about hearing from her so often? Is this not the best scenario possible? A girl that doesn't ask questions, super loyal, a good girl that isn't up my rear 24/7?

I can literally date her, while banging other broads and she wouldn't know.

What do you guys think of the whole scenario?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Remember that masculine polarity - wants to be free.

Female polarity - wants to entrap the man and keep the alpha to herself.

It sounds like you have a great set up in general. Don't get too pushy with needing to always be in contact with her. She might start to sense too much emotional investment from you.
 
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Wonder why people are so fvcked up nowadays.

Asking advice for this situation, really dude??? This is the kind thread that a fvcking b!tch made on LoveShack.org.

The b!tch does not bother you with all those texts, calls while being obedient, loyal able to keep her mouth shvt.

And you go here to post a thread about whether it is a problem??? FFS

Fvcking drama queen.
 
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i think this is a bragging thread disguised as a whining one.
 
spiegel549

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The Simple Man said:
Wonder why people are so fvcked up nowadays.

Asking advice for this situation, really dude??? This is the kind thread that a fvcking b!tch made on LoveShack.org.

The b!tch does not bother you with all those texts, calls while being obedient, loyal able to keep her mouth shvt.

And you go here to post a thread about whether it is a problem??? FFS

Fvcking drama queen.
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hahaha :up:

Honestly its my biggest flaw, every relationship I have been in I demand this attention where they are up my ass. I do realize after all my life/dating experiences and being on this site that I am in the perfect scenario BUT I am still trying to kick that over thinking habit.

BLUNTNESS is always very appreciated. Thanks guy!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Doesn't like technology? That's great! At least she's not gunna be browsing FB or POF for guys. She might actually have a good head on her shoulders! I think she's a keeper! If ya wana keep her long term don't mess around on her. I bet she's a country girl and one of those types that claims to be born in the wrong time era. Haha
 
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Most of us grew up without cell phones, it's no big deal. And I would rather a girl not be all over FB and her phone. I used to want to toss my exs phone out the window because she kept texting her friend.
 
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I agree with the last 3 guys.

This girl is the one. If you think you can do better you're just deluded.

because "better" for you will be a lifetime trying to buy expensive designer rubbish for some bimbo who plays you like the violin.
 
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morto said:
I agree with the last 3 guys.

This girl is the one. If you think you can do better you're just deluded.

because "better" for you will be a lifetime trying to buy expensive designer rubbish for some bimbo who plays you like the violin.
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if there is anything you must internalize is "there is not just one right girl for you, there are many right girls for you".
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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