"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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New GF that is anti technology, opinions?

spiegel549

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I recently started dating this 19 year old latina for about 2 months now. I am turning 27 and I feel this girl is the perfect set up for what having a girlfriend is all about. Please tell me if I am right or wrong.

The Facts:

-She is 19
-She goes to school part time/works part time
-She is afraid to introduce me to her family (not sure how they will react) lol
-I am her 2nd boyfriend ever. (would be the first to meet her family)
-She is extremely unexperienced but the sex is good because she is trainable and listens to me.
-She has never given a guy a BJ (not even me yet, still trying) lol

The "Problem"

-Her communication skills are horrible. She has a dinosaur phone. Goes the entire day sometimes with a dead phone and we have zero contact. She is always busy, and we see other about once-twice a week.

The Question

Personally I like to hear from girls I am dating so I am starting to think this is becoming an issue for ME….BUT in reality I know this girl isn't a serious thing to me because of the age gap, life experience etc so why do I care about hearing from her so often? Is this not the best scenario possible? A girl that doesn't ask questions, super loyal, a good girl that isn't up my rear 24/7?

I can literally date her, while banging other broads and she wouldn't know.

What do you guys think of the whole scenario?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HyperAnalyze

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Remember that masculine polarity - wants to be free.

Female polarity - wants to entrap the man and keep the alpha to herself.

It sounds like you have a great set up in general. Don't get too pushy with needing to always be in contact with her. She might start to sense too much emotional investment from you.
 
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Wonder why people are so fvcked up nowadays.

Asking advice for this situation, really dude??? This is the kind thread that a fvcking b!tch made on LoveShack.org.

The b!tch does not bother you with all those texts, calls while being obedient, loyal able to keep her mouth shvt.

And you go here to post a thread about whether it is a problem??? FFS

Fvcking drama queen.
 

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i think this is a bragging thread disguised as a whining one.
 

spiegel549

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The Simple Man said:
Wonder why people are so fvcked up nowadays.

Asking advice for this situation, really dude??? This is the kind thread that a fvcking b!tch made on LoveShack.org.

The b!tch does not bother you with all those texts, calls while being obedient, loyal able to keep her mouth shvt.

And you go here to post a thread about whether it is a problem??? FFS

Fvcking drama queen.
hahaha :up:

Honestly its my biggest flaw, every relationship I have been in I demand this attention where they are up my ass. I do realize after all my life/dating experiences and being on this site that I am in the perfect scenario BUT I am still trying to kick that over thinking habit.

BLUNTNESS is always very appreciated. Thanks guy!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Epimanes

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Doesn't like technology? That's great! At least she's not gunna be browsing FB or POF for guys. She might actually have a good head on her shoulders! I think she's a keeper! If ya wana keep her long term don't mess around on her. I bet she's a country girl and one of those types that claims to be born in the wrong time era. Haha
 

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Most of us grew up without cell phones, it's no big deal. And I would rather a girl not be all over FB and her phone. I used to want to toss my exs phone out the window because she kept texting her friend.
 

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I agree with the last 3 guys.

This girl is the one. If you think you can do better you're just deluded.

because "better" for you will be a lifetime trying to buy expensive designer rubbish for some bimbo who plays you like the violin.
 

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morto said:
I agree with the last 3 guys.

This girl is the one. If you think you can do better you're just deluded.

because "better" for you will be a lifetime trying to buy expensive designer rubbish for some bimbo who plays you like the violin.
if there is anything you must internalize is "there is not just one right girl for you, there are many right girls for you".
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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