"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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New GF that is anti technology, opinions?

spiegel549

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I recently started dating this 19 year old latina for about 2 months now. I am turning 27 and I feel this girl is the perfect set up for what having a girlfriend is all about. Please tell me if I am right or wrong.

The Facts:

-She is 19
-She goes to school part time/works part time
-She is afraid to introduce me to her family (not sure how they will react) lol
-I am her 2nd boyfriend ever. (would be the first to meet her family)
-She is extremely unexperienced but the sex is good because she is trainable and listens to me.
-She has never given a guy a BJ (not even me yet, still trying) lol

The "Problem"

-Her communication skills are horrible. She has a dinosaur phone. Goes the entire day sometimes with a dead phone and we have zero contact. She is always busy, and we see other about once-twice a week.

The Question

Personally I like to hear from girls I am dating so I am starting to think this is becoming an issue for ME….BUT in reality I know this girl isn't a serious thing to me because of the age gap, life experience etc so why do I care about hearing from her so often? Is this not the best scenario possible? A girl that doesn't ask questions, super loyal, a good girl that isn't up my rear 24/7?

I can literally date her, while banging other broads and she wouldn't know.

What do you guys think of the whole scenario?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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HyperAnalyze

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Remember that masculine polarity - wants to be free.

Female polarity - wants to entrap the man and keep the alpha to herself.

It sounds like you have a great set up in general. Don't get too pushy with needing to always be in contact with her. She might start to sense too much emotional investment from you.
 
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Wonder why people are so fvcked up nowadays.

Asking advice for this situation, really dude??? This is the kind thread that a fvcking b!tch made on LoveShack.org.

The b!tch does not bother you with all those texts, calls while being obedient, loyal able to keep her mouth shvt.

And you go here to post a thread about whether it is a problem??? FFS

Fvcking drama queen.
 

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i think this is a bragging thread disguised as a whining one.
 

spiegel549

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The Simple Man said:
Wonder why people are so fvcked up nowadays.

Asking advice for this situation, really dude??? This is the kind thread that a fvcking b!tch made on LoveShack.org.

The b!tch does not bother you with all those texts, calls while being obedient, loyal able to keep her mouth shvt.

And you go here to post a thread about whether it is a problem??? FFS

Fvcking drama queen.
hahaha :up:

Honestly its my biggest flaw, every relationship I have been in I demand this attention where they are up my ass. I do realize after all my life/dating experiences and being on this site that I am in the perfect scenario BUT I am still trying to kick that over thinking habit.

BLUNTNESS is always very appreciated. Thanks guy!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Epimanes

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Doesn't like technology? That's great! At least she's not gunna be browsing FB or POF for guys. She might actually have a good head on her shoulders! I think she's a keeper! If ya wana keep her long term don't mess around on her. I bet she's a country girl and one of those types that claims to be born in the wrong time era. Haha
 

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Most of us grew up without cell phones, it's no big deal. And I would rather a girl not be all over FB and her phone. I used to want to toss my exs phone out the window because she kept texting her friend.
 

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I agree with the last 3 guys.

This girl is the one. If you think you can do better you're just deluded.

because "better" for you will be a lifetime trying to buy expensive designer rubbish for some bimbo who plays you like the violin.
 

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morto said:
I agree with the last 3 guys.

This girl is the one. If you think you can do better you're just deluded.

because "better" for you will be a lifetime trying to buy expensive designer rubbish for some bimbo who plays you like the violin.
if there is anything you must internalize is "there is not just one right girl for you, there are many right girls for you".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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