"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GreatHornedOwl

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Everyone's saying don't knock on her door, so I just want to play devil's advocate and say I don't see anything creepy about knocking on a neighbor's door. As long as you have a reason.
Whether he has a reason isn't the point, lol. You don't show up uninvited and knock on a woman's door.
 

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Whether he has a reason isn't the point, lol. You don't show up uninvited and knock on a woman's door.
It's not just "a woman", it's his neighbor.
Generally speaking, I don't care for anyone knocking uninvited on anyone's door.
But I see nothing wrong with knocking on a neighbor's door if you have a reason, especially if you don't have their number.
Like "Hey, I'm having a party tonight, thought I'd invite you if you'd like to come". I don't see anything wrong with that, whatsoever. It's friendly.
 
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