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So a new single girl (assuming from what she said,said she’s new to town and doesn’t know anyone,works from home )

She lives directly below me(I’m on 3rd floor)

I’ve only talked to her once for couple minutes and like an idiot forgot to get her number to setup a hangout ...

Fast forward 2 weeks and I still haven’t seen her since,I’ve heard her slam her door leaving,but haven’t been able to catch her..

I’m thinking of just knocking on her door tmw and inviting her to the pool(apartment complex pool)

We vibed pretty well and she was asking me questions so I think this could go well. (Could her just being friendly)..

To me if she’s interested she will join and if she’s not she won’t simple as that

I asked my friend who games with me and he said it’s to forward/putting her on the spot if I knocked on her door.. since I’ve only seen her once and just to wait until I see he again

should I stop being a ***** and knock on her door and invite her to pool or wait to get her number when I bump into her again?
 

GreatHornedOwl

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Don't knock on the door dude, that's creepy. Let things play out. A little small talk here and there when you see her. You're rushing things, and it's going to signal to this woman that you're desperate and it will turn her off.
 

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Second what @GreatHornedOwl said.

She's your neighbour. You're going to run into her again eventually. Don't go out your way to knock on your neighbours door to game her lol.

Don't get too preoccupied with running into this chick. Do your thing. Let her see you bring hot women home.

And if I were you, I would also consider building rapport with her over time and play the long game, not necessarily to bed her, but there's potential she can become a "friend" (aka female wingman). Her living close to you is ideal logistically. She's probably got friends she can introduce you to, you can also develop a new social circle, etc... I had a female friend like that a couple years back who lived nearby me, and she helped me get laid a few times.
 

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Don’t rush. Assume she’s attracted and you’re the guy that lives above her and she tells her friends she only talked to once and hasn’t seen you since and asks them what she should do.

Be that guy and next time you do bump into her, keep it casual and friendly and to you she’s the cute neighbor that you’d entertain if it happens so you flirt, but you’re not thirsty.

The right situation will arise and that’s when you ask her to the pool or over for a party.

Then, she’s like: “finally the guy upstairs asked me to hang out”
 

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Don’t rush. Assume she’s attracted and you’re the guy that lives above her and she tells her friends she only talked to once and hasn’t seen you since and asks them what she should do.

Be that guy and next time you do bump into her, keep it casual and friendly and to you she’s the cute neighbor that you’d entertain if it happens so you flirt, but you’re not thirsty.

The right situation will arise and that’s when you ask her to the pool or over for a party.

Then, she’s like: “finally the guy upstairs asked me to hang out”
He should base his strategy off an imaginary conversation she's having?
 

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So a new single girl (assuming from what she said,said she’s new to town and doesn’t know anyone,works from home )

She lives directly below me(I’m on 3rd floor)

I’ve only talked to her once for couple minutes and like an idiot forgot to get her number to setup a hangout ...

Fast forward 2 weeks and I still haven’t seen her since,I’ve heard her slam her door leaving,but haven’t been able to catch her..

I’m thinking of just knocking on her door tmw and inviting her to the pool(apartment complex pool)

We vibed pretty well and she was asking me questions so I think this could go well. (Could her just being friendly)..

To me if she’s interested she will join and if she’s not she won’t simple as that

I asked my friend who games with me and he said it’s to forward/putting her on the spot if I knocked on her door.. since I’ve only seen her once and just to wait until I see he again

should I stop being a ***** and knock on her door and invite her to pool or wait to get her number when I bump into her again?
Wouldn't sh!t where I eat dude. This ain't Desperate Housewives.
 

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He should base his strategy off an imaginary conversation she's having?
No, what I mean is a mindset. A mindset that assumes he’s wanted “as if” she was doing the same thing he’s doing. Different than what would cause a guy to get on SS and ask if he should knock on her door after one conversation.
 

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No, what I mean is a mindset. A mindset that assumes he’s wanted “as if” she was doing the same thing he’s doing. Different than what would cause a guy to get on SS and ask if he should knock on her door after one conversation.
Well that's good I guess. I'm leaving in the morning for a 5-6 week trip through France, Switzerland, and probably Austria and maybe some others.

What's my point? I don't have one.
 

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I saw her again ..go figure lol .

got her number and told her we should hangout this coming weekend , she said she was going to her parents for the weekend a couple hours away and def another time.might be a rejection might not be we’ll see

i’ll just play it by ear like you guys said from here on out,not gonna overthink about it like I have before
 

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I saw her again ..go figure lol .

got her number and told her we should hangout this coming weekend , she said she was going to her parents for the weekend a couple hours away and def another time.might be a rejection might not be we’ll see

i’ll just play it by ear like you guys said from here on out,not gonna overthink about it like I have before
Are you both near a University?
 

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While I agree don’t knock on her door, I like the fast and direct method. You’re right: if she’s interested she’ll say yea, but when you offer you gotta be fully prepared to go to the pool even if she says no.

A long con way would be to fvck another girl loudly one night and hope she hears.
 

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If you are a normie, then listen to the advice that people say here. Don't knock on the door because normies always have to follow the rules. But if you are a chad/chadlite then you can knock on her door because they break the rules all the time and get away with it.

Since she didn't offer her number for you when you last spoke with her, chances are, you are a normie to her.
 

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I saw her again ..go figure lol .

got her number and told her we should hangout this coming weekend , she said she was going to her parents for the weekend a couple hours away and def another time.might be a rejection might not be we’ll see

i’ll just play it by ear like you guys said from here on out,not gonna overthink about it like I have before
I'd slot her as a third string option.

1st string : Women you have met and slept with and like
2nd string: women you have met, perhaps dated but not slept with
3rd string: women you have met but not dated yet.
4th string: women you have slept with that you decided don't make 1st string.
5th string: women you have not met yet or dated ( OLD)
 

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If you are a normie, then listen to the advice that people say here. Don't knock on the door because normies always have to follow the rules. But if you are a chad/chadlite then you can knock on her door because they break the rules all the time and get away with it.

Since she didn't offer her number for you when you last spoke with her, chances are, you are a normie to her.
What if you’re a chadhefty (slightly overweight chad)?
 

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So a new single girl (assuming from what she said,said she’s new to town and doesn’t know anyone,works from home )

She lives directly below me(I’m on 3rd floor)

I’ve only talked to her once for couple minutes and like an idiot forgot to get her number to setup a hangout ...

Fast forward 2 weeks and I still haven’t seen her since,I’ve heard her slam her door leaving,but haven’t been able to catch her..

I’m thinking of just knocking on her door tmw and inviting her to the pool(apartment complex pool)

We vibed pretty well and she was asking me questions so I think this could go well. (Could her just being friendly)..

To me if she’s interested she will join and if she’s not she won’t simple as that

I asked my friend who games with me and he said it’s to forward/putting her on the spot if I knocked on her door.. since I’ve only seen her once and just to wait until I see he again

should I stop being a ***** and knock on her door and invite her to pool or wait to get her number when I bump into her again?
Yea, don't knock. Porn makes it normal and realistic for that to happen but no, it is highly creepy and will def put her on the spot. And effectively you will come across needy. And as we all know neediness is not sexy.

Be patient, you will see her again. Then that would be your chance.

Modern Man Advice
 

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If you reside in an apartment, dating within your own complex is often a bad idea. When things go south, you'll have to see her until your lease or her lease expires. This is worse in condominiums or townhomes, which are often owned.
 

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I live in the upper part of Michigan ,shes going to her parents around Michigan state- Lansing(bottom part of Michigan /about 4hrs away)
ask her if she wants to be your cornhole partner and drink some Leinys later ya da hey?
 

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Don't knock on the door dude, that's creepy. Let things play out. A little small talk here and there when you see her. You're rushing things, and it's going to signal to this woman that you're desperate and it will turn her off.
Agreed
 
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