"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Its a cute story but its not 1985 anymore and doesnt apply in reality. It isnt manipulation its just purpose, self-improvement and keeping people around in my life. She cant complain because she did exactly the same in her best years as all girls do these days. This is the hand we MEN have been dealt. All these movements are here for a reason. There are dozens of them, why?

You talk about respect - girls today celebrate late term abortion, multiple sexual partners, rampant man hating, social media attention seeking, nudes, affairs, divorce. This is all the normal now. What is their left to respect?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Its a cute story but its not 1985 anymore and doesnt apply in reality. It isnt manipulation its just purpose, self-improvement and keeping people around in my life. She cant complain because she did exactly the same in her best years as all girls do these days. This is the hand we MEN have been dealt. All these movements are here for a reason. There are dozens of them, why?

You talk about respect - girls today celebrate late term abortion, multiple sexual partners, rampant man hating, social media attention seeking, nudes, affairs, divorce. This is all the normal now. What is their left to respect?
did I say any of that is respectful? Don’t paint one colour with one broad brush.
 

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I like to take a step back... and I think what we're seeing here between @AJ84 and @Medina is that people are drawn to others on their own wavelength. I personally find myself on AJ's wavelength, but at the same time it seems that Medina and his woman have similar values and behaviors (wavelength) and they're both aware of it, and that's why I don't condemn him or his woman for how they act toward each other. They have a relationship on their mutual wavelength just like AJ and her man do.
 

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I like to take a step back... and I think what we're seeing here between @AJ84 and @Medina is that people are drawn to others on their own wavelength. I personally find myself on AJ's wavelength, but at the same time it seems that Medina and his woman have similar values and behaviors (wavelength) and they're both aware of it, and that's why I don't condemn him or his woman for how they act toward each other. They have a relationship on their mutual wavelength just like AJ and her man do.
Exactly
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You talk about respect - girls today celebrate late term abortion, multiple sexual partners, rampant man hating, social media attention seeking, nudes, affairs, divorce. This is all the normal now. What is their left to respect?
It's the societal values.

Many of it is being celebrated and subcommunicated to young girls, that in the end, they get rewarded.
 
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