TheAsianLoverReturns
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thanks!Lucifero said:Cool video.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ask yourself this question.Maxtro said:Things always get better? Ha!
I do agree that not having any women in your life can mess up your mind. If I told anybody half the shit that goes through my head, I'd be living in a small room...
I've been living on blind hope for the past ten years. Sure I've been working on improving myself, but the results never change. Now I'm starting to wonder if I really to have a chance.
You're welcome. Smile? Perhaps.HolyG said:Good vid! But smile more lol, try and look less serious...haha
I really loved this vid. Thank you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Honestly, I don't know. I have put in a lot of effort, but have gotten no results. I keep walking but I still can't see the light.TheAsianLoverReturns said:Ask yourself this question.
Are you really improving yourself?
Joined clubs, sports team, a lair. Working on my education. In the gym three times a week. Force myself to be more social. Read lots of material related to PU. Talk to women whenever I'm around them.What are you doing to change your life for the better?
That's why bro, that pickup stuff is garbage. Talking to women is good, but most of the women you see about the day are not going to f*ck you.Maxtro said:Honestly, I don't know. I have put in a lot of effort, but have gotten no results. I keep walking but I still can't see the light.
Joined clubs, sports team, a lair. Working on my education. In the gym three times a week. Force myself to be more social. Read lots of material related to PU. Talk to women whenever I'm around them.
Right now, life feels very draining. Sometimes I wish I could just stay in bed the whole day. The only thing I even remotely look forward to is going to school where I can talk to my oneitis. But when I stop and think for a second, I know that she doesn't care about me at all and that just makes me feel worse.
I feel like going down a slow drain and I'm just waiting to get completely sucked in.
Props. That's the way to do it.Maxtro said:Joined clubs, sports team, a lair. Working on my education. In the gym three times a week. Force myself to be more social. Read lots of material related to PU. Talk to women whenever I'm around them.
Today, I had a hell of a shift at work and it didn't tire me all that much. It was hard work and it was long, but I'm not falling apart. Physically somewhat sore, but mentally I'm fidgety like a 5 year old and I can't wait for tomorrow like it's Christmas eve. I'm slightly exaggerating.Right now, life feels very draining. Sometimes I wish I could just stay in bed the whole day.
That's not good. If there's something we can do here just ask man.The only thing I even remotely look forward to is going to school where I can talk to my oneitis. But when I stop and think for a second, I know that she doesn't care about me at all and that just makes me feel worse.
I feel like going down a slow drain and I'm just waiting to get completely sucked in.