"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Never Give In... Don't go crazy and kill people over women

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Things always get better? Ha!

I do agree that not having any women in your life can mess up your mind. If I told anybody half the shit that goes through my head, I'd be living in a small room...

I've been living on blind hope for the past ten years. Sure I've been working on improving myself, but the results never change. Now I'm starting to wonder if I really to have a chance.
 

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If your a virgin over 25 go get a prostitute.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Maxtro said:
Things always get better? Ha!

I do agree that not having any women in your life can mess up your mind. If I told anybody half the shit that goes through my head, I'd be living in a small room...

I've been living on blind hope for the past ten years. Sure I've been working on improving myself, but the results never change. Now I'm starting to wonder if I really to have a chance.
Ask yourself this question.

Are you really improving yourself? What are you doing to change your life for the better?

I know how you feel, the game is an enormous struggle for me. I had to fight tooth and nail for everything I have achieved.
 

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Cave Dweller should read this thread.
 

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Good vid! But smile more lol, try and look less serious...haha


I really loved this vid. Thank you.
 

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did you write thise article because the guy at virginia tech was asian? lol j/p.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheAsianLoverReturns said:
Ask yourself this question.

Are you really improving yourself?
Honestly, I don't know. I have put in a lot of effort, but have gotten no results. I keep walking but I still can't see the light.

What are you doing to change your life for the better?
Joined clubs, sports team, a lair. Working on my education. In the gym three times a week. Force myself to be more social. Read lots of material related to PU. Talk to women whenever I'm around them.

Right now, life feels very draining. Sometimes I wish I could just stay in bed the whole day. The only thing I even remotely look forward to is going to school where I can talk to my oneitis. But when I stop and think for a second, I know that she doesn't care about me at all and that just makes me feel worse.

I feel like going down a slow drain and I'm just waiting to get completely sucked in.
 

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Maxtro said:
Honestly, I don't know. I have put in a lot of effort, but have gotten no results. I keep walking but I still can't see the light.


Joined clubs, sports team, a lair. Working on my education. In the gym three times a week. Force myself to be more social. Read lots of material related to PU. Talk to women whenever I'm around them.

Right now, life feels very draining. Sometimes I wish I could just stay in bed the whole day. The only thing I even remotely look forward to is going to school where I can talk to my oneitis. But when I stop and think for a second, I know that she doesn't care about me at all and that just makes me feel worse.

I feel like going down a slow drain and I'm just waiting to get completely sucked in.
That's why bro, that pickup stuff is garbage. Talking to women is good, but most of the women you see about the day are not going to f*ck you.

You have to go to the places where women are looking for men.

Online dating sites.
Bars.
Clubs.

Don't use a pickup routine. If you see a women giving you favorable eye contact, approach and say hello. Ask her light questions like how are you doing, did you have a fun weekend, etc.

Then ESCALATE.

For online dating sites, I ho chase every girl in a 20 mile radius. I got a lot of p*ssy by doing this.
 

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AsianLover: Not to sounds like a **** but, in your videos you really sound like you're forcing your voice to be that low. It just doesn't sound natural to me. Ruins the presentation.

Maxtro said:
Joined clubs, sports team, a lair. Working on my education. In the gym three times a week. Force myself to be more social. Read lots of material related to PU. Talk to women whenever I'm around them.
Props. That's the way to do it.

Right now, life feels very draining. Sometimes I wish I could just stay in bed the whole day.
Today, I had a hell of a shift at work and it didn't tire me all that much. It was hard work and it was long, but I'm not falling apart. Physically somewhat sore, but mentally I'm fidgety like a 5 year old and I can't wait for tomorrow like it's Christmas eve. I'm slightly exaggerating.

Something might be off. Have you tried working on the diet and maybe just chilling out mentally? Stress can be very draining, and your current changes could be stressing you out a little bit. If you're feeling bad maybe it's time to slow down a little bit so you can go the distance.

Or maybe you're not feeding your body properly. More active means more carbs and veggies required and the right ones.

The only thing I even remotely look forward to is going to school where I can talk to my oneitis. But when I stop and think for a second, I know that she doesn't care about me at all and that just makes me feel worse.

I feel like going down a slow drain and I'm just waiting to get completely sucked in.
That's not good. If there's something we can do here just ask man.

I'm glad to see you're making positive changes. Hopefully they'll feel like that too instead of a chore.
 
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