TheAsianLoverReturns
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Thanks!Lucifero said:Cool video.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ask yourself this question.Maxtro said:Things always get better? Ha!
I do agree that not having any women in your life can mess up your mind. If I told anybody half the shit that goes through my head, I'd be living in a small room...
I've been living on blind hope for the past ten years. Sure I've been working on improving myself, but the results never change. Now I'm starting to wonder if I really to have a chance.
You're welcome. Smile? Perhaps.HolyG said:Good vid! But smile more lol, try and look less serious...haha
I really loved this vid. Thank you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Honestly, I don't know. I have put in a lot of effort, but have gotten no results. I keep walking but I still can't see the light.TheAsianLoverReturns said:Ask yourself this question.
Are you really improving yourself?
Joined clubs, sports team, a lair. Working on my education. In the gym three times a week. Force myself to be more social. Read lots of material related to PU. Talk to women whenever I'm around them.What are you doing to change your life for the better?
That's why bro, that pickup stuff is garbage. Talking to women is good, but most of the women you see about the day are not going to f*ck you.Maxtro said:Honestly, I don't know. I have put in a lot of effort, but have gotten no results. I keep walking but I still can't see the light.
Joined clubs, sports team, a lair. Working on my education. In the gym three times a week. Force myself to be more social. Read lots of material related to PU. Talk to women whenever I'm around them.
Right now, life feels very draining. Sometimes I wish I could just stay in bed the whole day. The only thing I even remotely look forward to is going to school where I can talk to my oneitis. But when I stop and think for a second, I know that she doesn't care about me at all and that just makes me feel worse.
I feel like going down a slow drain and I'm just waiting to get completely sucked in.
Props. That's the way to do it.Maxtro said:Joined clubs, sports team, a lair. Working on my education. In the gym three times a week. Force myself to be more social. Read lots of material related to PU. Talk to women whenever I'm around them.
Today, I had a hell of a shift at work and it didn't tire me all that much. It was hard work and it was long, but I'm not falling apart. Physically somewhat sore, but mentally I'm fidgety like a 5 year old and I can't wait for tomorrow like it's Christmas eve. I'm slightly exaggerating.Right now, life feels very draining. Sometimes I wish I could just stay in bed the whole day.
That's not good. If there's something we can do here just ask man.The only thing I even remotely look forward to is going to school where I can talk to my oneitis. But when I stop and think for a second, I know that she doesn't care about me at all and that just makes me feel worse.
I feel like going down a slow drain and I'm just waiting to get completely sucked in.