"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Never get your hopes up with chicks!

mahon83050

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Originally posted by Fatality
Another thing is you say that you MIGHT have grabbed her ass while drunk. Meaning you don't remember everything that happened that night. That is a great example as to why people should not get drunk when they are trying to meet ladies. When you are drunk you end up embarrassing yourself and you don't even remember how. You probably screwed up in so many ways with this girl who had the initial interest in you. Control your drinking.
Just kidding, I did not grab her, I would remember if I did....and I was not completely wasted...just heavily buzzed.

Maybe you are right about the dancing...sorry though..It is not my style....I am not a good dancer, nor do I like to dance. I did ask her to slow dance with me though
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by mahon83050
Just kidding, I did not grab her, I would remember if I did....and I was not completely wasted...just heavily buzzed.

Maybe you are right about the dancing...sorry though..It is not my style....I am not a good dancer, nor do I like to dance. I did ask her to slow dance with me though
Slow dancing is what any guy can do. It makes you boring. If you can dance to some faster music with her you will definitely score points.
 

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Originally posted by Fatality
Slow dancing is what any guy can do. It makes you boring. If you can dance to some faster music with her you will definitely score points.
Well, alls I know is the possiblities for her blowing me off are endless:

It pisses me off how I get thrown into the boring category, just because I do not dance...girls are so quick to judge.
 
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