"Never answer a question"

[louis]

A few dating tips I have read suggest you should never answer a question from a woman.

I find this difficult.

Any views?

 

[( . )( . )]

who says what now?

but yeah it does reek of her guiding and you supplicating if shes doing the cop routine on you.

 

[Panther]

well, last week I went on first coffee date with a girl that seemed to have a huge IL.

and she was doing the "interview thing to me". And i was foolish enough to keep answering her questions

this drove the IL down enough so that she "was busy" last weekend...

It's ok to answer a couple of questions, but try to be vague

ThePanther

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I say use it as an outlet for c/f responses. But there is truth to it since women usually do not ask questions related to what they want to know about you. So before I answer I find out exactly what they want to know and then deflect using c/f if necessary.

Ever wonder what she really wants to know about you when she asks how many women you've slept with? I can think of at least 5 or more different things. What's the right answer, who knows? What are your chances of giving the right answer? Don't even try to figure that out without determining exactly what she wants to know and why.

 

[captn caveman]

am a tech guy, working in biomedical field.

Long time ago, used to give answer to "where do you work" like question,

Am at the uni

Then the questions would continue, and sometime when I get bored of answering, - I really donot care, if she asks, she will be answered - I push the conv. to her side.

Now an answer like:

Am at the uni. Studying bla bla. In this level. You?

Is s**t as you give too much info at once. Let her invest.

An answer like,

Am working for a university project, *smile* on the opposite field as the army does for enemies.

Am working for a university project, trying something new.

show interest in your life and in what you do.

Love yourself, they will love you.

and the answer is the clue.

*gonna be a poet soon*