Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Netherlands / Eindhoven

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He tof, veel Nederlanders hier.


Ik woon zelf in Arnhem maar ga ook naar andere (grotere) steden.


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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dutchy

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He allemaal

ik kom in Assen te wonen, iemand in de buurt?
 

Canucks1000

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Exchange to Maastricht

Hey guys,

I am new to this forum and I'm also going on a university exchange to the Universiteit Maastricht. I am currently attending university in Canada in Victoria, BC. I cannot wait to go to the Netherlands this fall. I was wondering if I could get some advice on where to travel in Netherlands and Europe, what's good to do in Maastricht and of coarse, where do I find all the Dutch girls? :) I hear so much about those fine Dutch girls. How would you say they compare to the rest of the European girls?

Do any of you guys live in Maastricht? I would be very interested to meet some of you.

Oh, and English please :p
Canucks
 

Torbosk

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Ik ben van belgië, omgeving van Gent.
Iemand die daar woont of studeert? Ik ben recentelijk begonnen met deze stuff en een wingman zou wel helpen denk ik.

Of kennen jullie belgische forums?
 

Torbosk

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DrMetallica said:
Holy crap is that Dutch? I don't speak Dutch but understood that perfectly.
Yeah, its dutch. It's a germanic language and has a lot of words in common with English/German.

If we said it, you wouldnt understand anything, but maybe you can read it a bit.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MyWay

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Meeste mensen zitten in de randstad :)
 

Panthera

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Hey,

i'm just starting with all of this and I want to get good at it, real good.
I would like to hang out sometimes with other dutch PUA's.
btw. I am from Eindhoven, dutch by nature, but I don't want to exclude any english speaking guys.
So if your interested in sarging sometimes..
 
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