"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Netherlands / Eindhoven

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He tof, veel Nederlanders hier.


Ik woon zelf in Arnhem maar ga ook naar andere (grotere) steden.


J
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dutchy

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He allemaal

ik kom in Assen te wonen, iemand in de buurt?
 

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Exchange to Maastricht

Hey guys,

I am new to this forum and I'm also going on a university exchange to the Universiteit Maastricht. I am currently attending university in Canada in Victoria, BC. I cannot wait to go to the Netherlands this fall. I was wondering if I could get some advice on where to travel in Netherlands and Europe, what's good to do in Maastricht and of coarse, where do I find all the Dutch girls? :) I hear so much about those fine Dutch girls. How would you say they compare to the rest of the European girls?

Do any of you guys live in Maastricht? I would be very interested to meet some of you.

Oh, and English please :p
Canucks
 

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Ik ben van belgië, omgeving van Gent.
Iemand die daar woont of studeert? Ik ben recentelijk begonnen met deze stuff en een wingman zou wel helpen denk ik.

Of kennen jullie belgische forums?
 

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DrMetallica said:
Holy crap is that Dutch? I don't speak Dutch but understood that perfectly.
Yeah, its dutch. It's a germanic language and has a lot of words in common with English/German.

If we said it, you wouldnt understand anything, but maybe you can read it a bit.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MyWay

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Meeste mensen zitten in de randstad :)
 

Panthera

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Hey,

i'm just starting with all of this and I want to get good at it, real good.
I would like to hang out sometimes with other dutch PUA's.
btw. I am from Eindhoven, dutch by nature, but I don't want to exclude any english speaking guys.
So if your interested in sarging sometimes..
 
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