"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Netherlands / Eindhoven

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He tof, veel Nederlanders hier.


Ik woon zelf in Arnhem maar ga ook naar andere (grotere) steden.


J
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dutchy

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He allemaal

ik kom in Assen te wonen, iemand in de buurt?
 

Canucks1000

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Exchange to Maastricht

Hey guys,

I am new to this forum and I'm also going on a university exchange to the Universiteit Maastricht. I am currently attending university in Canada in Victoria, BC. I cannot wait to go to the Netherlands this fall. I was wondering if I could get some advice on where to travel in Netherlands and Europe, what's good to do in Maastricht and of coarse, where do I find all the Dutch girls? :) I hear so much about those fine Dutch girls. How would you say they compare to the rest of the European girls?

Do any of you guys live in Maastricht? I would be very interested to meet some of you.

Oh, and English please :p
Canucks
 

Torbosk

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Ik ben van belgië, omgeving van Gent.
Iemand die daar woont of studeert? Ik ben recentelijk begonnen met deze stuff en een wingman zou wel helpen denk ik.

Of kennen jullie belgische forums?
 

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DrMetallica said:
Holy crap is that Dutch? I don't speak Dutch but understood that perfectly.
Yeah, its dutch. It's a germanic language and has a lot of words in common with English/German.

If we said it, you wouldnt understand anything, but maybe you can read it a bit.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MyWay

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Meeste mensen zitten in de randstad :)
 

Panthera

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Hey,

i'm just starting with all of this and I want to get good at it, real good.
I would like to hang out sometimes with other dutch PUA's.
btw. I am from Eindhoven, dutch by nature, but I don't want to exclude any english speaking guys.
So if your interested in sarging sometimes..
 
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