"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Net Dating. How to go About it.

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Guys, I'd try to keep this very short. Well, I met this girl online about a week ago and we decided to meet sometimes this weekend. I have never participated in online dating things so I would like to be provided with advice how to go about taking her out. Should I give her my number to call me or ask for her number to call her or just ask her to meet me somewhere. I just don't know. Has anybody done online dating b/4? If so, how did you all go about it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Desperately need help.

Guys I need to know what to do. Please help. I have to send her an email sometimes by the end of today to arrange for our meetings. Any suggestions will do.
 
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Thanks for the response reyalp but the search thing did not work for me. I could not pull out anything vital. Do you have any online experience yourself?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You can do it a couple of ways.

The best way, I think is to simply arrange a spot to meet via email.

For example, you say lets meet at the coffee shop on the corner of 21st and Main at 2pm saturday.

You can ask for her phone number and then call to setup the date; This also works, but depending on the level of rapport built up via email she may be uncomfortable giving out her number before a face to face.

I'd recommend my first suggestion. Simply state the time and place of the date then show up at the designated time.

You can PM me if you need any more advice on the online dating thing, i've played with it in the past.
 
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She already provided me her number. We arranged to meet this saturday. I think the first suggestion will work best. I just don't feel comfortable talking to her on the phone right now. I told her I volunteer preparing taxes for the community and she already fell in love with me. She immediately provided me her number. I don't know whether this is a good sign or not. I will just have to see. I will keep you all posted every single moment of the date. Thanks all.
 
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Originally posted by amoka
I told her I volunteer preparing taxes for the community and she already fell in love with me.
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Read this back to yourself a hundred times.


Not to be too cynical, but I doubt she "already fell in love with (you)" :rolleyes: because of your generosity to the community....
 
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Actually, I should not have said that. I just that by saying that got me attracted to her more. That is what I assume. I might be wrong and maybe I'm wrong.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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