“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nervous when you know a girl likes you

niceguy1

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I kind a get nervous when I know a girl likes me, the way she checks me out and smiles at me. But I find it quite hard to know what to say to a girl who is *waiting* me to chat her up.

It has happened before and I would usualy go up to her and talk, but then she says she has a boyfriend, and Im like feeling *wtf are you looking at me like you wanna f$%^ me?*

Are they just doing for the attention? To get you to talk to them and then reject you?

What is the best way to aproach a girl, and what to say, to a girl lets say works in a shop, knowing that you have to be quick because she is working, etc.?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Doggystyle

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Always remember whilst and before talking to her that she cares more about what you think of her than she thinks of you.

Even though she has a boyfriend she will still probably want to **** you if your reading the signs right, your just probably coming off as wanting to have her as a girlfriend instead of just wanting to **** her.
 

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Some girls do it as attention. They are not getting that validation from their boyfriend, so they pick you to caress their ego.

Remember this:

Attention to a girl is like sex is to a guy. It's that important they get it.
 
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