"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Nervous when you know a girl likes you

niceguy1

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I kind a get nervous when I know a girl likes me, the way she checks me out and smiles at me. But I find it quite hard to know what to say to a girl who is *waiting* me to chat her up.

It has happened before and I would usualy go up to her and talk, but then she says she has a boyfriend, and Im like feeling *wtf are you looking at me like you wanna f$%^ me?*

Are they just doing for the attention? To get you to talk to them and then reject you?

What is the best way to aproach a girl, and what to say, to a girl lets say works in a shop, knowing that you have to be quick because she is working, etc.?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Doggystyle

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Always remember whilst and before talking to her that she cares more about what you think of her than she thinks of you.

Even though she has a boyfriend she will still probably want to **** you if your reading the signs right, your just probably coming off as wanting to have her as a girlfriend instead of just wanting to **** her.
 

tmpgstx

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Some girls do it as attention. They are not getting that validation from their boyfriend, so they pick you to caress their ego.

Remember this:

Attention to a girl is like sex is to a guy. It's that important they get it.
 
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