"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nervous when you know a girl likes you

niceguy1

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I kind a get nervous when I know a girl likes me, the way she checks me out and smiles at me. But I find it quite hard to know what to say to a girl who is *waiting* me to chat her up.

It has happened before and I would usualy go up to her and talk, but then she says she has a boyfriend, and Im like feeling *wtf are you looking at me like you wanna f$%^ me?*

Are they just doing for the attention? To get you to talk to them and then reject you?

What is the best way to aproach a girl, and what to say, to a girl lets say works in a shop, knowing that you have to be quick because she is working, etc.?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Doggystyle

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Always remember whilst and before talking to her that she cares more about what you think of her than she thinks of you.

Even though she has a boyfriend she will still probably want to **** you if your reading the signs right, your just probably coming off as wanting to have her as a girlfriend instead of just wanting to **** her.
 

tmpgstx

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Some girls do it as attention. They are not getting that validation from their boyfriend, so they pick you to caress their ego.

Remember this:

Attention to a girl is like sex is to a guy. It's that important they get it.
 
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