"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nervous when you know a girl likes you

niceguy1

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I kind a get nervous when I know a girl likes me, the way she checks me out and smiles at me. But I find it quite hard to know what to say to a girl who is *waiting* me to chat her up.

It has happened before and I would usualy go up to her and talk, but then she says she has a boyfriend, and Im like feeling *wtf are you looking at me like you wanna f$%^ me?*

Are they just doing for the attention? To get you to talk to them and then reject you?

What is the best way to aproach a girl, and what to say, to a girl lets say works in a shop, knowing that you have to be quick because she is working, etc.?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Doggystyle

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Always remember whilst and before talking to her that she cares more about what you think of her than she thinks of you.

Even though she has a boyfriend she will still probably want to **** you if your reading the signs right, your just probably coming off as wanting to have her as a girlfriend instead of just wanting to **** her.
 

tmpgstx

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Some girls do it as attention. They are not getting that validation from their boyfriend, so they pick you to caress their ego.

Remember this:

Attention to a girl is like sex is to a guy. It's that important they get it.
 
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