"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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nerd game: approaching in libraries, coffee shops

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Kool4Katz

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Title pretty much sums it up. I'd love to see a whole series on gaming nerds, or at least, chicks in nerdy environments.

I personally find libraries very hard. My only idea is if you can catch a girl's eye, walk up and say something more original than "I've seen you here before."

Coffee shops I'd imagine are a bit easier - maybe ask what they're reading?

Either way I'm gonna have to grow some ballz.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There are places where nerds and geeks assemble. Are you solely after nerds or geeks too? They are two different entities. The problem is that they are no different sometimes even crazier than regular women, especially the better looking ones and have way too many options from the gay suplicating chumps orbiting them (plentiful in science departments). When I was in uni I didn't fit in with the nerds and I could tell that they are used to AFC ways....even their sense of humor is different.
 
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The same techniques should work on any woman, sub-culture/lifestyle notwithstanding.
 
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