"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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nerd game: approaching in libraries, coffee shops

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Title pretty much sums it up. I'd love to see a whole series on gaming nerds, or at least, chicks in nerdy environments.

I personally find libraries very hard. My only idea is if you can catch a girl's eye, walk up and say something more original than "I've seen you here before."

Coffee shops I'd imagine are a bit easier - maybe ask what they're reading?

Either way I'm gonna have to grow some ballz.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There are places where nerds and geeks assemble. Are you solely after nerds or geeks too? They are two different entities. The problem is that they are no different sometimes even crazier than regular women, especially the better looking ones and have way too many options from the gay suplicating chumps orbiting them (plentiful in science departments). When I was in uni I didn't fit in with the nerds and I could tell that they are used to AFC ways....even their sense of humor is different.
 
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The same techniques should work on any woman, sub-culture/lifestyle notwithstanding.
 
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