"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nerd game: approaching in libraries, coffee shops

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Kool4Katz

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Title pretty much sums it up. I'd love to see a whole series on gaming nerds, or at least, chicks in nerdy environments.

I personally find libraries very hard. My only idea is if you can catch a girl's eye, walk up and say something more original than "I've seen you here before."

Coffee shops I'd imagine are a bit easier - maybe ask what they're reading?

Either way I'm gonna have to grow some ballz.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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There are places where nerds and geeks assemble. Are you solely after nerds or geeks too? They are two different entities. The problem is that they are no different sometimes even crazier than regular women, especially the better looking ones and have way too many options from the gay suplicating chumps orbiting them (plentiful in science departments). When I was in uni I didn't fit in with the nerds and I could tell that they are used to AFC ways....even their sense of humor is different.
 
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The same techniques should work on any woman, sub-culture/lifestyle notwithstanding.
 
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