"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nerd game: approaching in libraries, coffee shops

Kool4Katz

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Title pretty much sums it up. I'd love to see a whole series on gaming nerds, or at least, chicks in nerdy environments.

I personally find libraries very hard. My only idea is if you can catch a girl's eye, walk up and say something more original than "I've seen you here before."

Coffee shops I'd imagine are a bit easier - maybe ask what they're reading?

Either way I'm gonna have to grow some ballz.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PapiChulo

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There are places where nerds and geeks assemble. Are you solely after nerds or geeks too? They are two different entities. The problem is that they are no different sometimes even crazier than regular women, especially the better looking ones and have way too many options from the gay suplicating chumps orbiting them (plentiful in science departments). When I was in uni I didn't fit in with the nerds and I could tell that they are used to AFC ways....even their sense of humor is different.
 

ilikecharlene

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The same techniques should work on any woman, sub-culture/lifestyle notwithstanding.
 
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