sevbucmash
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and this is her now
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nelly Furtado
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and this is her now
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SW15
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Nelly Furtado gained a lot of weight.
In 2006, when the "Loose" album was released, Nelly Furtado was already a single mom because her first kid was born in 2003. Furtado was 27 in 2006.
"Loose" is the album with the song "Promiscuous", which was her biggest hit.
I had no idea Furtado was a single mom already during her peak.
In 2006, when the "Loose" album was released, Nelly Furtado was already a single mom because her first kid was born in 2003. Furtado was 27 in 2006.
"Loose" is the album with the song "Promiscuous", which was her biggest hit.
I had no idea Furtado was a single mom already during her peak.
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Damn she was my favorite back then in my simping days.
This is what waits for us. I do have to say tho..we know zero about how she actually is as a human/ woman. Yet this is " the Latina curse". They'll blow up like balloons after a certain age.
It's sad how society praises these things instead of being dead honest about how unattractive it looks..
Damn
This is what waits for us. I do have to say tho..we know zero about how she actually is as a human/ woman. Yet this is " the Latina curse". They'll blow up like balloons after a certain age.
It's sad how society praises these things instead of being dead honest about how unattractive it looks..
Damn
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Releasing those photos has NF back on the radar, when just last week, she was only slightly more remembered than Matchbox 20 and the work of Mozi. This strategy for regaining some semblance of relevance is more crafty than most recognize
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Bible_Belt
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That seems to happen to everyone in the rural American Midwest where I live. Everyone's fat. Some fat people get on Ozempic and lose weight, but then they look like a deflated balloon.
Desdinova
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You know how some women retain their curves even when they put on a few pounds? She doesn't have that.
Who’s your favourite now in your non simping days?
Travel memoir21
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Id be in Art Class, Freshman year, first period, sketching and coloring, while this would be rockin on my class’s radio.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Nelly got pregnant in 2003, when she just turned 24. She got pregnant when she was not married or engaged, She got pregnant by a younger man, her boyfriend was 23 years old.
Her boyfriend was a composer in the music industry, he did not go to University and study 4 years and get a degree and get a job with a biweekly paycheque,
Currently he is 46 and she is 48. Their love child is 21 years old. Her picture below.
Her boyfriend was a composer in the music industry, he did not go to University and study 4 years and get a degree and get a job with a biweekly paycheque,
Currently he is 46 and she is 48. Their love child is 21 years old. Her picture below.
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Gamisch
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I don't think I have a favourite like that anymore..
Back then a girl like NF could take me to the cleaners whenever she felt like. Same with prime Megan, Jessica alba and some blonde looking women.
Nowadays I slept/ dated / cohabited with enough women like that to know they're not sweet little angels at all...
So : NONE.
pipeman84
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JLo is working hard to prove wrong that stereotype.
Furtado reminds me of Pierce Brosnan's wife ... I think it's much more about unresolved deep seated issues than poor genetics when we see women who've been slim throughout their entire life get morbidly obese in their late 30s and 40s.
sevbucmash
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Like what?
pipeman84
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Who knows? Maybe they're unhappy with their choices in life such as career/husband but feel they have to keep on for appearances sake. So they're living a fake life and that usually takes a toll on you. That's why the lives of most influencers are a mess.
Maybe they feel inadequate or unworthy. Bottom line, I see it as a total lie the way they put on a front of happiness and I love you no matter what you look like, as the Brosnans do. It would be more honest to simply state that they don't know what's happening but they're working on figuring it out.
As a side note, I believe the 'quick fixes' such as Ozempic are only addressing the symptoms, not the root causes. And even on that, they don't do a good job. (because people using these drugs don't lose weight the healthy way ... they disproportionately lose muscle mass and get saddled with a host of other health issues).
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Like the love of endless breadsticks and bottomless mimosas.
Yikes. Some comedian had joke that goes something like-
“Your eyes are as blue as a clear sunny day”
”Your hair is golden like fields of wheat”
”Your smile is warm like the morning sun”
”Your ass is huge like a Mack truck, enough with the bread already”
She explains that she had two kids back to back in a short time period. This is an example of what happens to many women when they have kids. A lot of women go through life on easy street. Ride their looks as long as they can without getting daily exercise or putting in any effort. By the time they have a kid and hit middle age, the lack of effort catches up with them. It all depends on your daily routine. She is a public figure so we have several before-after photos to compare.
Same thing happened to Jennifer Love Hewitt. Two kids back to back. At the same time, I know a handful of milfs in my social circle that look like motherhood did not phase them. Those women have some type of workout routine like running or OrangeTheory.
Funny being a parent and meeting couples when your kids start Kindergarten, the moms are young and hot AF. Most of them look unrecognizable by the time high school graduation comes around.
“OMG, WTF happened to her? What a shame“ is the typical thought comes to mind.