sevbucmash
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and this is her now
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Nelly Furtado
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and this is her now
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SW15
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Nelly Furtado gained a lot of weight.
In 2006, when the "Loose" album was released, Nelly Furtado was already a single mom because her first kid was born in 2003. Furtado was 27 in 2006.
"Loose" is the album with the song "Promiscuous", which was her biggest hit.
I had no idea Furtado was a single mom already during her peak.
In 2006, when the "Loose" album was released, Nelly Furtado was already a single mom because her first kid was born in 2003. Furtado was 27 in 2006.
"Loose" is the album with the song "Promiscuous", which was her biggest hit.
I had no idea Furtado was a single mom already during her peak.
Gamisch
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Damn she was my favorite back then in my simping days.
This is what waits for us. I do have to say tho..we know zero about how she actually is as a human/ woman. Yet this is " the Latina curse". They'll blow up like balloons after a certain age.
It's sad how society praises these things instead of being dead honest about how unattractive it looks..
Damn
This is what waits for us. I do have to say tho..we know zero about how she actually is as a human/ woman. Yet this is " the Latina curse". They'll blow up like balloons after a certain age.
It's sad how society praises these things instead of being dead honest about how unattractive it looks..
Damn
BaronOfHair
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Releasing those photos has NF back on the radar, when just last week, she was only slightly more remembered than Matchbox 20 and the work of Mozi. This strategy for regaining some semblance of relevance is more crafty than most recognize
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bible_Belt
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That seems to happen to everyone in the rural American Midwest where I live. Everyone's fat. Some fat people get on Ozempic and lose weight, but then they look like a deflated balloon.
Desdinova
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You know how some women retain their curves even when they put on a few pounds? She doesn't have that.
Who’s your favourite now in your non simping days?
Travel memoir21
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Id be in Art Class, Freshman year, first period, sketching and coloring, while this would be rockin on my class’s radio.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nelly got pregnant in 2003, when she just turned 24. She got pregnant when she was not married or engaged, She got pregnant by a younger man, her boyfriend was 23 years old.
Her boyfriend was a composer in the music industry, he did not go to University and study 4 years and get a degree and get a job with a biweekly paycheque,
Currently he is 46 and she is 48. Their love child is 21 years old. Her picture below.
Her boyfriend was a composer in the music industry, he did not go to University and study 4 years and get a degree and get a job with a biweekly paycheque,
Currently he is 46 and she is 48. Their love child is 21 years old. Her picture below.
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I don't think I have a favourite like that anymore..
Back then a girl like NF could take me to the cleaners whenever she felt like. Same with prime Megan, Jessica alba and some blonde looking women.
Nowadays I slept/ dated / cohabited with enough women like that to know they're not sweet little angels at all...
So : NONE.
pipeman84
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JLo is working hard to prove wrong that stereotype.
Furtado reminds me of Pierce Brosnan's wife ... I think it's much more about unresolved deep seated issues than poor genetics when we see women who've been slim throughout their entire life get morbidly obese in their late 30s and 40s.
sevbucmash
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Like what?
pipeman84
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Who knows? Maybe they're unhappy with their choices in life such as career/husband but feel they have to keep on for appearances sake. So they're living a fake life and that usually takes a toll on you. That's why the lives of most influencers are a mess.
Maybe they feel inadequate or unworthy. Bottom line, I see it as a total lie the way they put on a front of happiness and I love you no matter what you look like, as the Brosnans do. It would be more honest to simply state that they don't know what's happening but they're working on figuring it out.
As a side note, I believe the 'quick fixes' such as Ozempic are only addressing the symptoms, not the root causes. And even on that, they don't do a good job. (because people using these drugs don't lose weight the healthy way ... they disproportionately lose muscle mass and get saddled with a host of other health issues).
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Like the love of endless breadsticks and bottomless mimosas.
Yikes. Some comedian had joke that goes something like-
“Your eyes are as blue as a clear sunny day”
”Your hair is golden like fields of wheat”
”Your smile is warm like the morning sun”
”Your ass is huge like a Mack truck, enough with the bread already”
She explains that she had two kids back to back in a short time period. This is an example of what happens to many women when they have kids. A lot of women go through life on easy street. Ride their looks as long as they can without getting daily exercise or putting in any effort. By the time they have a kid and hit middle age, the lack of effort catches up with them. It all depends on your daily routine. She is a public figure so we have several before-after photos to compare.
Same thing happened to Jennifer Love Hewitt. Two kids back to back. At the same time, I know a handful of milfs in my social circle that look like motherhood did not phase them. Those women have some type of workout routine like running or OrangeTheory.
Funny being a parent and meeting couples when your kids start Kindergarten, the moms are young and hot AF. Most of them look unrecognizable by the time high school graduation comes around.
“OMG, WTF happened to her? What a shame“ is the typical thought comes to mind.