"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nei Strauss - sellout or not?

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Ok i just watched a video clip of Neil Strauss appearing on "This morning with Richard and Judy" ( its a chat show in the UK ) and now im a little frightened. They discussed his book in detail and he took three guys into a bar and they used

the 80's dogs openers,
jealous girlfriend openers,
they discussed time contraints
the "girl has same outfit as you" neghit
a few more.

This went on national television. I know its been on TV stations in other countries too.
These openers/neghits/routines are useless from now on.


The more i think of it, the more i believe that a woman will know when your "running game on her" thanks to Mr Strauss, especially the mystery method.( which is described in the book ).

Part of me thinks that Mr Strauss has done a great job awakening those men who for years have been going through anguish in regards to getting girls. But the other part of me is angry at Strauss for awakening the female population to PUA methods and formulas.

Yes before you mention it or flame me, i shouldnt rely on Strauss's book or his methods to pick up women, its not that which worries me. Whats worrying is that women will now be more aware of a PUA and someone who will run game on them. This is a fact. Womens magazines will tear this up.

For all you guys using styles/mysterys routines, better come up with your own stuff pretty soon before you walk into a club , open a chick by saying
"hey i need a female opinion on something.." to which she cuts you off and says "yeh your buddies are over there you have 2 mins cos you need to get back to em, his girlfriends jealous, who cares, get lost":down:

A new ERA of PUAdom shall evole IMO.

Strauss, sellout or not?
Mr Strauss, sir if you ever read this thread, great book you wrote but youve ratted us all out in the process
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The word "player" existed before him. Didn't they ever ask you if you were a player when you were so smooth?

In that case, no one should lie, because the bible's out in the bookstores.

Stop watching (so much) tv, and you will never hear a word about him.
 

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Originally posted by muttley
Whats worrying is that women will now be more aware of a PUA and someone who will run game on them. This is a fact. Womens magazines will tear this up.
You never heard of the book "The Rules" that came out about 10 years ago have you? It was a guide for women as to how to hook a man. It basically was a set of sh1t tests that could deflect weak game and perpetuate the existance of "nice guys."

The book was extremely successful in sales but DJs still survived despite it. Actually the women who wrote the book ended up getting divorced from their husbands but that's another story altogether.

The fact is (and you said it in your post), DJs shouldn't rely on canned lines especially if it were stolen from someone else. It's like using cheat codes in video games with less of a chance of actually winning.
 

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true true, the point im trying to argue is that women will be more aware of PUA methods and PUAs in general because of this
 

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Originally posted by muttley
true true, the point im trying to argue is that women will be more aware of PUA methods and PUAs in general because of this
but we're not PUAs, so don't worry, it's okay.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by h2o
but we're not PUAs, so don't worry, it's okay.
Some of us sargers are using these tactics..come on ive read your sarging thread too dude :D
 

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Originally posted by muttley
true true, the point im trying to argue is that women will be more aware of PUA methods and PUAs in general because of this
Yep. and because they know that guys are trying to pick them up, they'll stop liking d*ck.

Strauss sold no one out. Although I'd never head of 'style' before the book came out, it is clear after reading it that he played a MAJOR part in building EVERYTHING that we now take for granted.

Had Strauss never met Mystery there would have been no Project Hollywood, which means no RSD. The Mystery Method would be completely different, infact, Mystery could be dead.

The things that Strauss, Mystery and the rest have learnt, they didn't have to teach it. They certainly didn't have to teach it for free.

These ideas and methods were going to be found by more and more people, and someone was always going to make alot of money from it. It seems fitting that Strauss and Mystery would both make alot of money.

I don't know enough about other PUAs. But David D, Tyler both seem like they deserve the $$ aswell (even though I don't enjoy there long winded threads.)

So better that these guys make the $$ on it, then some chump who comes along, learns it all, and writes a book without ever giving to the community.
 

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Originally posted by muttley
Some of us sargers are using these tactics..come on ive read your sarging thread too dude :D
ok, ok, Juggler rocks :D but I'm not a big fan of Style. i've read yours too, sarge on!

still, if you "sprinkle" in the tips you get from these guys and not rely heavily on their "methods" you will do fine. i think it's mostly a problem if you're substituting your own personality for canned material...which DJs wouldn't do.
 

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Originally posted by muttley
true true, the point im trying to argue is that women will be more aware of PUA methods and PUAs in general because of this
This is just the first time when a guy has provided information. All the womens magazines, television talk shows and works by feminazi authors have been attempting to either expose or lambaste us for years.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ill upload the clip to rapidshare or something... watch this thread...ill upload it.
 

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Even if mainstream females learn and watch out for pua's, we'll just become better at disguising ourselves, nothing can stop us, we are too strong, and too many.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Wow, that was a lot more informative than any of the interviews Neil's done over here in the States. Glad that show's over the pond. :D
 

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****, if real 10+HB women find out about the game they will look for naturals.

If your not a DJ you are not natural, and that is why you read these forums.
 

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The only defense that Neil really has is: most of the routines that he is giving away, he invented.
 

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We'd all do the same....

It really sucks what he's done. I see people talking about this **** everywhere now. From about.com to newspapers to you name it.

I am sad to say that most of us probably would've done the same thing had we only the talent and forethought. I'm not being self-righteous here, but the more commercial things get.. the more mainstream public will become awaken to it. Money breeds advertising to get more money. It's great for those people selling products.

At this point my new material doesn't even get shared with my local wings unless they observe it, because I know it will eventually get posted on the Internet. Even my field reports are going to be censored from this point forward.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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