"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Negs and C+F lines to use if your lost for things to say.

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Hey I was just looking around some other dating advice forums and came across this. I take no credit for any of them but thought it may help the odd person if they get stuck.

- Which one of you guys would win in a fight?
- You're taking this way too seriously
- Stop flirting with me
- If that were true, you wouldn't love me
- You must've driven your parents crazy
- Give me a kiss on the cheek, and maybe I'll let you forgive me
- I'm too high maintenance for you
- What else do you like about me?
- I'm so out of your league
- Let's play a game. Let's see how long you can hold your breath
- You're back to square one with me, missy
- You're so outside the circle of trust
- How short are you?
- You're such a player
- You guys remind me of the Power Puff Girls/or/ You guys are like watching The View
- Do your parents know where you are
- Isn't this a school night
- You're makeup is smudged
- Bartender, you might want to check this girl's ID again
- We should hang out some time. You can help me pick up chicks
- You girls aren't toursists, are you?
- Holy ****, you really don't know what you're doing, do you?
- Careful girl, I'm a heartbreak waiting to happen
- Your ex boyfriend sounds just like me
- I'm so emotionally unavailable right now
- I think you might make a nice friend
- We need to find you a man
- We would never get along
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Clever stuff :)

If a girl throws a tantrum I say, "How do you find time to attend playschool(/pre-school) AND high school?"

Thanks for sharing Plec :)

PS. What was the forum called? Might be helpful...
 

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Nice ideas.
I thought of these:
After you gain some rapport and a # you can say :"Great, i just got my 15 y\o bro a chick.".
And on the phone you can say "Hello!!!" and than she says :"Its Sharon" you say "fffs, you again?".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't expect anybody to even attemp to remember them all, but pick your favorite two or so and use em when you get stuck
 

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nice thread, Plec.
 

Messarger

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"your ex-boyfriend sounds so like me" is more like a false dq instead of neg.
 

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Neg-hits? Big no-no unless the girl is at least an 8.5 or she sees herself that way (she's arrogant or wtvr.)


Good post nonetheless.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I neg every girl I know, regardless of HB rating. Hell, I even neg most guys. And I get away with it, because thats who I am. It's my style, you won't have many convos with me without gettin hit by a neg. Create your own style, there are no solid rules.
 

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Yeah, I know, but I'm just mentioning a general rule on the safe side.

I neg a lot personally, unintentionally too. Hence, I'm just saying.
 

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Ah cool, yeah I read that again just now and realise it may have come across as a bit defensive. I didn't mean it to. I'm just stating that you can neg a lot and do it.
 

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I neg all the time. If the girl can't handle the play, she's not for me anyway. Most girls love it.
 
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