"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Negs and C+F lines to use if your lost for things to say.

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Hey I was just looking around some other dating advice forums and came across this. I take no credit for any of them but thought it may help the odd person if they get stuck.

- Which one of you guys would win in a fight?
- You're taking this way too seriously
- Stop flirting with me
- If that were true, you wouldn't love me
- You must've driven your parents crazy
- Give me a kiss on the cheek, and maybe I'll let you forgive me
- I'm too high maintenance for you
- What else do you like about me?
- I'm so out of your league
- Let's play a game. Let's see how long you can hold your breath
- You're back to square one with me, missy
- You're so outside the circle of trust
- How short are you?
- You're such a player
- You guys remind me of the Power Puff Girls/or/ You guys are like watching The View
- Do your parents know where you are
- Isn't this a school night
- You're makeup is smudged
- Bartender, you might want to check this girl's ID again
- We should hang out some time. You can help me pick up chicks
- You girls aren't toursists, are you?
- Holy ****, you really don't know what you're doing, do you?
- Careful girl, I'm a heartbreak waiting to happen
- Your ex boyfriend sounds just like me
- I'm so emotionally unavailable right now
- I think you might make a nice friend
- We need to find you a man
- We would never get along
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Clever stuff :)

If a girl throws a tantrum I say, "How do you find time to attend playschool(/pre-school) AND high school?"

Thanks for sharing Plec :)

PS. What was the forum called? Might be helpful...
 

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Nice ideas.
I thought of these:
After you gain some rapport and a # you can say :"Great, i just got my 15 y\o bro a chick.".
And on the phone you can say "Hello!!!" and than she says :"Its Sharon" you say "fffs, you again?".
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I don't expect anybody to even attemp to remember them all, but pick your favorite two or so and use em when you get stuck
 

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nice thread, Plec.
 

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"your ex-boyfriend sounds so like me" is more like a false dq instead of neg.
 

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Neg-hits? Big no-no unless the girl is at least an 8.5 or she sees herself that way (she's arrogant or wtvr.)


Good post nonetheless.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I neg every girl I know, regardless of HB rating. Hell, I even neg most guys. And I get away with it, because thats who I am. It's my style, you won't have many convos with me without gettin hit by a neg. Create your own style, there are no solid rules.
 

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Yeah, I know, but I'm just mentioning a general rule on the safe side.

I neg a lot personally, unintentionally too. Hence, I'm just saying.
 

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Ah cool, yeah I read that again just now and realise it may have come across as a bit defensive. I didn't mean it to. I'm just stating that you can neg a lot and do it.
 

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I neg all the time. If the girl can't handle the play, she's not for me anyway. Most girls love it.
 
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