"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Negs and C+F lines to use if your lost for things to say.

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Hey I was just looking around some other dating advice forums and came across this. I take no credit for any of them but thought it may help the odd person if they get stuck.

- Which one of you guys would win in a fight?
- You're taking this way too seriously
- Stop flirting with me
- If that were true, you wouldn't love me
- You must've driven your parents crazy
- Give me a kiss on the cheek, and maybe I'll let you forgive me
- I'm too high maintenance for you
- What else do you like about me?
- I'm so out of your league
- Let's play a game. Let's see how long you can hold your breath
- You're back to square one with me, missy
- You're so outside the circle of trust
- How short are you?
- You're such a player
- You guys remind me of the Power Puff Girls/or/ You guys are like watching The View
- Do your parents know where you are
- Isn't this a school night
- You're makeup is smudged
- Bartender, you might want to check this girl's ID again
- We should hang out some time. You can help me pick up chicks
- You girls aren't toursists, are you?
- Holy ****, you really don't know what you're doing, do you?
- Careful girl, I'm a heartbreak waiting to happen
- Your ex boyfriend sounds just like me
- I'm so emotionally unavailable right now
- I think you might make a nice friend
- We need to find you a man
- We would never get along
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Clever stuff :)

If a girl throws a tantrum I say, "How do you find time to attend playschool(/pre-school) AND high school?"

Thanks for sharing Plec :)

PS. What was the forum called? Might be helpful...
 

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Nice ideas.
I thought of these:
After you gain some rapport and a # you can say :"Great, i just got my 15 y\o bro a chick.".
And on the phone you can say "Hello!!!" and than she says :"Its Sharon" you say "fffs, you again?".
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't expect anybody to even attemp to remember them all, but pick your favorite two or so and use em when you get stuck
 

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nice thread, Plec.
 

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"your ex-boyfriend sounds so like me" is more like a false dq instead of neg.
 

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Neg-hits? Big no-no unless the girl is at least an 8.5 or she sees herself that way (she's arrogant or wtvr.)


Good post nonetheless.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I neg every girl I know, regardless of HB rating. Hell, I even neg most guys. And I get away with it, because thats who I am. It's my style, you won't have many convos with me without gettin hit by a neg. Create your own style, there are no solid rules.
 

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Yeah, I know, but I'm just mentioning a general rule on the safe side.

I neg a lot personally, unintentionally too. Hence, I'm just saying.
 

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Ah cool, yeah I read that again just now and realise it may have come across as a bit defensive. I didn't mean it to. I'm just stating that you can neg a lot and do it.
 

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I neg all the time. If the girl can't handle the play, she's not for me anyway. Most girls love it.
 
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