"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Neg-Hits that went wrong:

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Eye Of Rah

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We all have experienced the Neg-Hit that went too far. What is your best example of a bad Neg-Hit?

Mine is pretty simple.

I was talking to a girl, she was about a 7. Real nice, intelligent, very opinionated.

Well, the conversation carried on, i checked her interest with kino, all was going good. I noticed how much hair she had on her arms. So, i held my arm up next to hers and said "Wow your hairier than i am, and thats saying something."

Needless to say that comment blew it.
"Never talk to me again."
And i was happy to oblige her. NEXT!

So, give me an example of the Neg-Hit you fvcked up. I know you have alot of them you would rather forget about, but dig em up for a lil, they need some air!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Only use neg-hits on hbs that are stuck-up or know they are hot looking.
 
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yeah.. i think that neg hit of yours wouldve worked on a HOT CHICK who doesnt have hair at all... so u go up to some hot ass chick with little hair and u tell her, wow, you're hairier than me. BUT OBVIOUISLY she's not hairy and she's hot
 
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Originally posted by Eye Of Rah
We all have experienced the Neg-Hit that went too far. What is your best example of a bad Neg-Hit?

Mine is pretty simple.

I was talking to a girl, she was about a 7. Real nice, intelligent, very opinionated.

Well, the conversation carried on, i checked her interest with kino, all was going good. I noticed how much hair she had on her arms. So, i held my arm up next to hers and said "Wow your hairier than i am, and thats saying something."

Needless to say that comment blew it.
"Never talk to me again."
And i was happy to oblige her. NEXT!

So, give me an example of the Neg-Hit you fvcked up. I know you have alot of them you would rather forget about, but dig em up for a lil, they need some air!
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Um...if you're going to use "neg-hits" in the way they were intended then you don't EVER use them when it's likely that you are going to HURT the person by teasing them about something likely to be a sensitive subject to them. That girl probably got brutally teased about being hairy when she was younger. Anyone with big ears, a big nose, etc is going to be the same. You don't EVER neg hit someone using something they were likely to be teased and hurt over when they were little. That's a good way to make them hate you.

This should really be common sense.
 
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