"I just moved here from Florida."

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She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

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Eye Of Rah

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We all have experienced the Neg-Hit that went too far. What is your best example of a bad Neg-Hit?

Mine is pretty simple.

I was talking to a girl, she was about a 7. Real nice, intelligent, very opinionated.

Well, the conversation carried on, i checked her interest with kino, all was going good. I noticed how much hair she had on her arms. So, i held my arm up next to hers and said "Wow your hairier than i am, and thats saying something."

Needless to say that comment blew it.
"Never talk to me again."
And i was happy to oblige her. NEXT!

So, give me an example of the Neg-Hit you fvcked up. I know you have alot of them you would rather forget about, but dig em up for a lil, they need some air!
 

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Only use neg-hits on hbs that are stuck-up or know they are hot looking.
 

DJnoob

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yeah.. i think that neg hit of yours wouldve worked on a HOT CHICK who doesnt have hair at all... so u go up to some hot ass chick with little hair and u tell her, wow, you're hairier than me. BUT OBVIOUISLY she's not hairy and she's hot
 

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Originally posted by Eye Of Rah
We all have experienced the Neg-Hit that went too far. What is your best example of a bad Neg-Hit?

Mine is pretty simple.

I was talking to a girl, she was about a 7. Real nice, intelligent, very opinionated.

Well, the conversation carried on, i checked her interest with kino, all was going good. I noticed how much hair she had on her arms. So, i held my arm up next to hers and said "Wow your hairier than i am, and thats saying something."

Needless to say that comment blew it.
"Never talk to me again."
And i was happy to oblige her. NEXT!

So, give me an example of the Neg-Hit you fvcked up. I know you have alot of them you would rather forget about, but dig em up for a lil, they need some air!
Um...if you're going to use "neg-hits" in the way they were intended then you don't EVER use them when it's likely that you are going to HURT the person by teasing them about something likely to be a sensitive subject to them. That girl probably got brutally teased about being hairy when she was younger. Anyone with big ears, a big nose, etc is going to be the same. You don't EVER neg hit someone using something they were likely to be teased and hurt over when they were little. That's a good way to make them hate you.

This should really be common sense.
 
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