"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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neg hits/push pull advice

Danny1729

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Hey there,I tried a bit of neg hitting/push pull.. with this 19 yr old hottie on myspace,we are mates but have never hung out..

she had a bikini pic up,and all the other guys were like "hot" "damns exy" etc etc..

so i said "not too bad.."

and she replied to my page saying "not too bad aye omg what does that mean???"

what do i say back lol? i dont wanna hurt her feelings or anything,just sorta stumped me
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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afrojiggles

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continue the game playa, get her off the damn pedestal ok? and report back
 

Plec07

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Somin like "Oh nothing... was that the only colour they had?" will suffice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Danny1729

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i replied before i read these.. thanks anyway guys,i said "i was being sarcastic silly.."

afcish i know,but whatever it was it worked perfect..

had all the attention in the world since from her,meeting her in person next week.. the ground work has kinda been set out,but she is a hb9.

and i gotta meet her and her mates,so its gonna be a little awkward.. she'd prolly flake so (long story) i can make sure she wont.

she is a bit of an attention wh*re,but she is different.. she is an attention wh*re who actually has real feelings,its weird as lol..

so i tread a bit of a fine line,with neg hits especially..
 
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