"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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neg hits/push pull advice

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Danny1729

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Hey there,I tried a bit of neg hitting/push pull.. with this 19 yr old hottie on myspace,we are mates but have never hung out..

she had a bikini pic up,and all the other guys were like "hot" "damns exy" etc etc..

so i said "not too bad.."

and she replied to my page saying "not too bad aye omg what does that mean???"

what do i say back lol? i dont wanna hurt her feelings or anything,just sorta stumped me
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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afrojiggles

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continue the game playa, get her off the damn pedestal ok? and report back
 
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Plec07

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Somin like "Oh nothing... was that the only colour they had?" will suffice.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Danny1729

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i replied before i read these.. thanks anyway guys,i said "i was being sarcastic silly.."

afcish i know,but whatever it was it worked perfect..

had all the attention in the world since from her,meeting her in person next week.. the ground work has kinda been set out,but she is a hb9.

and i gotta meet her and her mates,so its gonna be a little awkward.. she'd prolly flake so (long story) i can make sure she wont.

she is a bit of an attention wh*re,but she is different.. she is an attention wh*re who actually has real feelings,its weird as lol..

so i tread a bit of a fine line,with neg hits especially..
 
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