neg hits/push pull advice

[Danny1729]

Hey there,I tried a bit of neg hitting/push pull.. with this 19 yr old hottie on myspace,we are mates but have never hung out..

she had a bikini pic up,and all the other guys were like "hot" "damns exy" etc etc..

so i said "not too bad.."

and she replied to my page saying "not too bad aye omg what does that mean???"

what do i say back lol? i dont wanna hurt her feelings or anything,just sorta stumped me

 

[Hitman10000]

Please post in the high school forum, don't come here ever again you piece of sh*t.

 

[Danny1729]

thanks for the warm welcome to the site.

does anyone have any serious advice about it?

 

[Gary29]

You're stumped over an f'ing MySpace comment? Cmon my man, if something like THIS stumps you, and we're talking MySpace here, not even a "real" date or conversation, then I think you read into things way too much.

Also, you might think that you can earn attraction and points (in a significant way) based on myspace/text/email/whatever. All that is chump change when it comes to attraction and the romance game in my opinion. Focus on more serious ways to earn attraction and "points", such as meeting her on a date or other type of social situation and showing her what you're made of there.

 

[Incog]

Myspace comment? Neg hitting and push and pull? Come on man.

First of all that comment is hardly a neg hit and isn't push/pull.

Second, it's a Myspace comment. Like Gary said, attraction isn't built over Myspace. Don't overanalyze such situations.

If you want your answer; I would not reply to her question at all.

 

[Danny1729]

thanks for the replies,all good... i just said "i was being sarcastic silly"

and ever since ive been getting all the attention in the world from her

 

[Jay Jay]

Yo Danny...

Don't sweat it with some of those dudes who gave you harsh responses. The fact that she's giving you all the attention I think speaks for itself.

Anyway.

Dude, you did so well with the "not bad."

And then you ****ed it up by backing down.

The negative dudes above are right that it isn't a "text book" neg or push and pull. But its the right attitude.

That attitude was "yeah you're okay but that doesn't overwhelm me."

My response to her question "what does that mean?" would have been something like, "It means I'd hang/date/****/ (depending on the girl) with you... if there was no one else around."

If your "I was being sarcastic" comment was the last interaction then alls not lost. If she's like "so you think I look good?"

I'd be like, "nah I meant I was being sarcastic about you being that good."

She'd be like, WTF? again.

Then you'd be like, "sorry baby, I'm just messin with ya. I'll take you out for an icecream for being so mean. Busy Saturday?"

That then would be push pull.

Good Luck Danny.

JJ