Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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NEETCels could cause housing prices to drop 30%

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“Some of them drop out [of college] and are just sort of forlorn and have no purpose or meaning in life. They’re not very likely to be married. They’re very likely to be living in their parent’s basement,” Graham said. “They’re lonely, they’re isolated.”
And while the housing market may be booming now, it is also possible that men leaving the labor force will weigh on that market as well. Meredith Whitney, a longtime Wall Street forecaster, predicts home prices could drop as much as 30% over a period of years thanks to men working less, being less interested in starting families, and being more likely to live with their parents.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NEETs by definition are going to be incels. If you are a man and not engaged in employment, education, or training, you don't likely have a good life. If you're really good looking and not engaged in employment, education, or training, you might be able to get laid. Most good looking men are engaged in employment, education, or training.

I wonder what's going to happen when Boomer and Gen X parents die and NEET incel Millennials and Gen Z's inherit their houses but don't have a lifestyle for their houses and/or can't make the maintenance payments on them.
 

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NEETs by definition are going to be incels. If you are a man and not engaged in employment, education, or training, you don't likely have a good life. If you're really good looking and not engaged in employment, education, or training, you might be able to get laid. Most good looking men are engaged in employment, education, or training.
In my experience, it's more about relationships where this sort of thing becomes a big deal as opposed to it making one 'incel'.

e.g i've known a fair few 'NEETS' in my time who had good sex lives and got laid a lot with cute young girls.

But, relationships often never got off the ground (I can think of a few exceptions like when she was also basically 'neet', or when the girl was just obsessed with him to the point his 'neetness' didn't seem to matter) but generally things fizzle out way before an actual relationship, or , the thought of an actual boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is never even entertained by either party.

I guess it's similar to the old 'money' debate. If you are a good looking young dude you can be broke and have a crap job and stuff (is that really much different to being 'neet'?) yet you can still get laid a tonne if you look good and stuff. But having a crap job and being broke usually becomes an issue when it comes to 'settling down' kinda thing. I've mentioned before about how one of my hottest ever spell where I was getting laid like gangbusters happened to coincide with when I was broke and basically had nothing in terms of what one might think of as 'success' lol. But I was at my best looking and was also travelling to places/full on PUA approaching every hot 18 year old girl I saw lol
 
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Hi MDJ,
With the incredible numbers of Migrants our Nations are bringing in,the prices of Real Estate wont be dropping anytime soon...SW15 wanders what the young Guy in the basement is going to do when he inherits the Family home...Well,he will sell it,or move up from his basement and rent out a few rooms.
 

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2 things:

1) Articles like these are perfect ammunition against the normies who say there's nothing wrong with the dating market. The "Herbivores" of Japan might be across the ocean but this is closer to home. Who's going to defend, maintain, and advance the Western World? These ForlornBasementCels? Doubt it.

2) Actually, the move towards collusion prosecution is going to be the real market-wrecker.



It's OVER for RealPageCels
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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