"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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NEEED HELP: Is she lieing or not?

Livinlifehard

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Ok so i banged this uglyish chick one night (she caught me at a time when i would have banged almost anything). so i go over there, we have sex (almost right away). I had a condom (trojen) with spermicide. When i get off i pull off the condom and check it for leaks, not like test it a lot just look over it to see if a drop comes out or anything. Nothing... now she says she is a week late.

She started she is a week late, i told her that it shouldnt be late because condom didnt break (used that brand a lot), and i masterbated earlyer that day so it kills sperm count. and then she said "hope your right" i said, "have you taken a pregnancy test?" and she said "no going to wait a week". so i made my point why she shouldnt be pregnate, and then after that she was like "so what you doing this weekend?" like trying to get me to go out. I think she is just going for attention (she was 18)... she isnt good looking, i am a decent catch (decent looks, money, personality), plus i have been kinda ingnoring her a bit after that night... actually ingnoring her A LOT. So what do you guys think? i told a girl this (really good friend) and she said "ya i think she is trying to get attention". i kinda blew her off though and said "well tell me if your ok... ok?" i dont want to give her attention so she wont push this issue. Has this happend to any of you all?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Pimp-sicle

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What's there to lie about? She's a week late, that's not lying. But don't stress, women are late on their cycle for a variety of reasons other than being pregnant. Hormones, stress, etc can all affect when she gets her period.

But the bottom line is it doesn't matter what other people "think" she might be doing, if she's pregnant, then you've got a big decision to make. However I wouldn't stress out too badly....yet.



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ryannath

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I think it's very unlikely she is pregnant. The condom worked as planned. Girls can be paranoid about being late when they have been having sex. She could just be testing you though to see how you would react if you really got her pregnant in the future or something.
 

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i know... its just im parinoid i guess... she is saying "i have never been late". and i hope this shows i would be a bad person to have a kid with
 
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I hate hors - tell her to "Go to Hor Hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! " Tell her "Hor - go to hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!", "Go to hell Hor!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" - "Hor, Go To Hor Hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJF or John

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Yeah LivinLife, ummm

I learned my lesson, and it's this...

While you want to have a very high sexual flow...before you even FEEL like cumming, pull out and jack off until you are READY.

Here's the thing, usually, I'm so into the sexual flow and I'm really just beatin the girl's pvssy, making her *** and everything...

But when I start to begin really enjoyin it...I pull out.

And I might eat her pvssy while I jack off.

Keep in mind, I still have on a condom, but I just don't and won't take a chance getting some of these chicks pregnant. Most of the chicks I fvck I don't even see anymore after a week, so it's not like I am trying to have that.

I dont' think your chick is pregnant, but just take this lesson. DO NOT *** IN A CHCIK...I don't care if you have 8 condoms on...don't even get HAPPY in a chick, AT ALL. Pull out and jack it off.

Do like the porno guys do. You see how they tell the chick to get off, and the dude jacks off and makes himself *** that way, do that!

DO NOT *** in a chick, don't even get HAPPY in a chick.
 

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Last Man Standing said:
I hate hors - tell her to "Go to Hor Hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! " Tell her "Hor - go to hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!", "Go to hell Hor!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" - "Hor, Go To Hor Hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
I'm starting to see a trend with this guy and women.... you might have some issues you need to resolve if that's the case
 

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my friend said that i should cut it off right now and say "there is no way i can be, i will want to see a blood test if you are" and now on her myspace she is all saying in blogs she is depressed. I do not need this **** now.
 
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